"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What happened here and how did i handle it?

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window

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despite what you think she ended it first...

"She said that we should not meet and see how things would work out."

this is woman speak for I don't want to see you any more...

your response was a little spiteful, you should have replied with ok no problem and left it at that...

380 miles is a long way to sustain a relationship with someone
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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@window: Well, it might be the case. Or it might be a huge power move of hers to take control of the situation (and frame).
When i responded, i took it as a compromise of her desire and as such i felt disrespected. So, i called it quits.

@scrouds: I am not invested on this girl, I assure you. I have two other women that fulfill my needs as **** buddies.
I take this as a learning project. I mean, who wouldn't like to learn Game practicing on a highly desirable woman at her best age?

I will keep you posted guys. My prediction is that she will finally break and directly contact me. It maybe take some time, but it will happen.

Thanks
 
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ronniel said:
@window: Well, it might be the case. Or it might be a huge power move of hers to take control of the situation (and frame).
When i responded, i took it as a compromise of her desire and as such i felt disrespected. So, i called it quits.

@scrouds: I am not invested on this girl, I assure you. I have two other women that fulfill my needs as **** buddies.
I take this as a learning project. I mean, who wouldn't like to learn Game practicing on a highly desirable woman at her best age?

I will keep you posted guys. My prediction is that she will finally break and directly contact me. It maybe take some time, but it will happen.

Thanks
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You're stalking her blog. Feel free to lie to me, don't lie to yourself.
 
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@scrouds: When you spin plates, eventually one of them will fall through the cracks. If you handle the situation well, it will come around (maybe). It's all a game.

Also, are YOU so fragile that you can't read the blog of a girl that you've banged but you don't bang anymore? Come on...
 
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