"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What happened here and how did i handle it?

window

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despite what you think she ended it first...

"She said that we should not meet and see how things would work out."

this is woman speak for I don't want to see you any more...

your response was a little spiteful, you should have replied with ok no problem and left it at that...

380 miles is a long way to sustain a relationship with someone
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ronniel

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@window: Well, it might be the case. Or it might be a huge power move of hers to take control of the situation (and frame).
When i responded, i took it as a compromise of her desire and as such i felt disrespected. So, i called it quits.

@scrouds: I am not invested on this girl, I assure you. I have two other women that fulfill my needs as **** buddies.
I take this as a learning project. I mean, who wouldn't like to learn Game practicing on a highly desirable woman at her best age?

I will keep you posted guys. My prediction is that she will finally break and directly contact me. It maybe take some time, but it will happen.

Thanks
 

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ronniel said:
@window: Well, it might be the case. Or it might be a huge power move of hers to take control of the situation (and frame).
When i responded, i took it as a compromise of her desire and as such i felt disrespected. So, i called it quits.

@scrouds: I am not invested on this girl, I assure you. I have two other women that fulfill my needs as **** buddies.
I take this as a learning project. I mean, who wouldn't like to learn Game practicing on a highly desirable woman at her best age?

I will keep you posted guys. My prediction is that she will finally break and directly contact me. It maybe take some time, but it will happen.

Thanks
You're stalking her blog. Feel free to lie to me, don't lie to yourself.
 

ronniel

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@scrouds: When you spin plates, eventually one of them will fall through the cracks. If you handle the situation well, it will come around (maybe). It's all a game.

Also, are YOU so fragile that you can't read the blog of a girl that you've banged but you don't bang anymore? Come on...
 
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