"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What happened here and how did i handle it?

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window

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despite what you think she ended it first...

"She said that we should not meet and see how things would work out."

this is woman speak for I don't want to see you any more...

your response was a little spiteful, you should have replied with ok no problem and left it at that...

380 miles is a long way to sustain a relationship with someone
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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@window: Well, it might be the case. Or it might be a huge power move of hers to take control of the situation (and frame).
When i responded, i took it as a compromise of her desire and as such i felt disrespected. So, i called it quits.

@scrouds: I am not invested on this girl, I assure you. I have two other women that fulfill my needs as **** buddies.
I take this as a learning project. I mean, who wouldn't like to learn Game practicing on a highly desirable woman at her best age?

I will keep you posted guys. My prediction is that she will finally break and directly contact me. It maybe take some time, but it will happen.

Thanks
 
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ronniel said:
@window: Well, it might be the case. Or it might be a huge power move of hers to take control of the situation (and frame).
When i responded, i took it as a compromise of her desire and as such i felt disrespected. So, i called it quits.

@scrouds: I am not invested on this girl, I assure you. I have two other women that fulfill my needs as **** buddies.
I take this as a learning project. I mean, who wouldn't like to learn Game practicing on a highly desirable woman at her best age?

I will keep you posted guys. My prediction is that she will finally break and directly contact me. It maybe take some time, but it will happen.

Thanks
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You're stalking her blog. Feel free to lie to me, don't lie to yourself.
 
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@scrouds: When you spin plates, eventually one of them will fall through the cracks. If you handle the situation well, it will come around (maybe). It's all a game.

Also, are YOU so fragile that you can't read the blog of a girl that you've banged but you don't bang anymore? Come on...
 
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