"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What happen to my sig? It's only one short sentence...

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's still there.

I just turned off the automatic feature on sigs. You now need to check the box to have your sig show up.

Which means that if anyone breaks the sig rules, we know they did it intentionally and not accidentally... and swift, harsh, and horrible consequences will surely befall them.
 

Mack Of All Trades

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Is it ok if the signature is like 11 or 12 sentences? I have some quotes that I really dont want to delete. I understand if you guys would be against this, so I will delete them if necessary. I will include my sig in this post.
 

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Your sig is 11 lines long, which is over the limit and would be deleted. Even if you reduced it to 10, you'd still only be able to add it if your post was at least 10 lines long. A 2 or 3 line sig would be appropriate for just about anything.
 

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Something is wrong, I still can't see my own signature. I have all the option enable ---->"user cp"---->"edit options"------->"Show user's signatures in their posts?"---YES
I even tried different internet browser like the Opera.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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