"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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*batting eyelashes* with big sweet smile....Thank you my Dear and even more respect because you're an inspector.

I can only imagine the trials and challenges you must meet dealing with things AND people.
Keep up the good work. It is important to public safety, everyone appreciates your attention to detail.
Get a room, you two...:p
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Easy now. I'm not that kind of guy. She would have to at least buy me dinner first.

Seriously, though, we should all be complimenting women that are proudly feminine. We should make a point of letting them know that it's a natural and beautiful thing that we find attractive.

Because the media tries 24/7 to convince them that it's not.
In turn, it is easy and far-reaching to compliment a man for his natural masculinity.

There's repercussions such as the accusation of lovebombing but really, even that is a comforting visual image contained in that 'personality disorder' word.

*imagining hearts being sprinkled down the sky from a bomber plane*
 
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In turn, it is easy and far-reaching to compliment a man for his natural masculinity.

There's repercussions such as the accusation of lovebombing but really, even that is a comforting visual image contained in that 'personality disorder' word.

*imagining hearts being sprinkled down the sky from a bomber plane*
I think that part of being unabashedly femine entails acknowledging your man's masculinity.

But yes, it's an easy thing to do and it means the world to a man, yet most modern women refuse to do it. It's ridiculous.

The media has deluded us to a point where women act like men and vice versa
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think that part of being unabashedly femine entails acknowledging your man's masculinity.

But yes, it's an easy thing to do and it means the world to a man, yet most modern women refuse to do it. It's ridiculous.

The media has deluded us to a point where women act like men and vice versa
Well my Dear, some modern women have no idea how much deep, secret knowledge is available to them once they freely acknowledge and freely admire men with genuine observations and genuine feedback.


It is easy to give love and encouragement and costs nothing.

A woman practising acknowledging, admiring, loving and encouraging men can be restored and replenished by reconnecting with nature and the outdoors.

The Return On (time & effort) Investment is humbling and gracious. Men give women so much!!!! Many sincere thanks.
 
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Well my Dear, some modern women have no idea how much deep, secret knowledge is available to them once they freely acknowledge and freely admire men with genuine observations and genuine feedback.


It is easy to give love and encouragement and costs nothing.

A woman practising acknowledging, admiring, loving and encouraging men can be restored and replenished by reconnecting with nature and the outdoors.

The Return On (time & effort) Investment is humbling and gracious. Men give women so much!!!! Many sincere thanks.
Don't patronize me.

A woman can find her feminity by having children and raising them, and by supporting her man who is the head of the household. This is the natural order of things. Something that has been stolen from us by liberal elites in coastal cities, who are only worried about financial returns.

But yes, nature and the outdoors are nice, too.
 

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Don't patronize me.

A woman can find her feminity by having children and raising them, and by supporting her man who is the head of the household. This is the natural order of things. Something that has been stolen from us by liberal elites in coastal cities, who are only worried about financial returns.

But yes, nature and the outdoors are nice, too.
Thank you for the feedback about appearing patronizing.

I can accept criticism and improve.

Aside: there must be more to regaining femininity than just removing masculinity.

I'm sorry if I insulted or offended. A member months ago wrote about simply not responding directly to posts in order not to aggravate, so I will do that with yours moving forward.
 
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Thank you for the feedback about appearing patronizing.

I can accept criticism and improve.

Aside: there must be more to regaining femininity than just removing masculinity.

I'm sorry if I insulted or offended. A member months ago wrote about simply not responding directly to posts in order not to aggravate, so I will do that with yours moving forward.
You're on a men's website, sweetheart. We challenge each other for sh1ts and giggles.

We don't sit around and tell each other how great the other one is. That would be a women's forum.

Edit - I challenge people for sh1ts and giggles, most men here do it to help other men be better.
 
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Easy now. I'm not that kind of guy. She would have to at least buy me dinner first.

Seriously, though, we should all be complimenting women that are proudly feminine. We should make a point of letting them know that it's a natural and beautiful thing that we find attractive.

Because the media tries 24/7 to convince them that it's not.
One thing I've always noticed is that @Lynx nkaf is always respectful and doesn't stir up drama.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yeah that’s a good one.

I keep telling myself “XYZ task is no big deal.”

Roughly equivalent.
yes, I like that one too Mike....'no big deal'

Sometimes I quote a portion of that Frost poem 'and miles to go before I sleep'
It strangely encourages me(just put in the work and you can rest, kind of thing)
 

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I don’t want to pay someone else to do it.
I can do it better myself…
It ain't gonna fix ,( or build ) itself.
 

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Red Seal Structural Ironworker 2018 on sites since 2008 and Red Seal Welder 2019 in school, shops, factories and sites since 1995

One of these people that took a long time to get her journeyman status(welding almost 25 years) ironworking 10 years before the Certificate of Qualification as they call it here in Canada.

I grandfathered in for the welding and had a real registered apprenticeship between 2016-2018 for the ironworking.

Right now I'm working outside of a mechanical shop. I started as a mechanic last April 2019 hurt my neck pretty good(first serious work injury of my life) and applied for an internal posting for the outdoors position where I'm away from the welding fumes and getting way more healthy exercise than working stationary as a welder/mechanic.

If this steady employment goes tits up then I still have tons of qualifications to get more work. Just heard on the radio today that this province has the lowest unemployment rate in Canada rn.
So although I make only about half of my construction rate, I'm more stable and not moving around every 2-3 months for work. Great opportunity for working on selfdevelopment and it feels good.
where are you
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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