Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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*batting eyelashes* with big sweet smile....Thank you my Dear and even more respect because you're an inspector.

I can only imagine the trials and challenges you must meet dealing with things AND people.
Keep up the good work. It is important to public safety, everyone appreciates your attention to detail.
Get a room, you two...:p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Easy now. I'm not that kind of guy. She would have to at least buy me dinner first.

Seriously, though, we should all be complimenting women that are proudly feminine. We should make a point of letting them know that it's a natural and beautiful thing that we find attractive.

Because the media tries 24/7 to convince them that it's not.
In turn, it is easy and far-reaching to compliment a man for his natural masculinity.

There's repercussions such as the accusation of lovebombing but really, even that is a comforting visual image contained in that 'personality disorder' word.

*imagining hearts being sprinkled down the sky from a bomber plane*
 
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In turn, it is easy and far-reaching to compliment a man for his natural masculinity.

There's repercussions such as the accusation of lovebombing but really, even that is a comforting visual image contained in that 'personality disorder' word.

*imagining hearts being sprinkled down the sky from a bomber plane*
I think that part of being unabashedly femine entails acknowledging your man's masculinity.

But yes, it's an easy thing to do and it means the world to a man, yet most modern women refuse to do it. It's ridiculous.

The media has deluded us to a point where women act like men and vice versa
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think that part of being unabashedly femine entails acknowledging your man's masculinity.

But yes, it's an easy thing to do and it means the world to a man, yet most modern women refuse to do it. It's ridiculous.

The media has deluded us to a point where women act like men and vice versa
Well my Dear, some modern women have no idea how much deep, secret knowledge is available to them once they freely acknowledge and freely admire men with genuine observations and genuine feedback.


It is easy to give love and encouragement and costs nothing.

A woman practising acknowledging, admiring, loving and encouraging men can be restored and replenished by reconnecting with nature and the outdoors.

The Return On (time & effort) Investment is humbling and gracious. Men give women so much!!!! Many sincere thanks.
 
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Well my Dear, some modern women have no idea how much deep, secret knowledge is available to them once they freely acknowledge and freely admire men with genuine observations and genuine feedback.


It is easy to give love and encouragement and costs nothing.

A woman practising acknowledging, admiring, loving and encouraging men can be restored and replenished by reconnecting with nature and the outdoors.

The Return On (time & effort) Investment is humbling and gracious. Men give women so much!!!! Many sincere thanks.
Don't patronize me.

A woman can find her feminity by having children and raising them, and by supporting her man who is the head of the household. This is the natural order of things. Something that has been stolen from us by liberal elites in coastal cities, who are only worried about financial returns.

But yes, nature and the outdoors are nice, too.
 

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Don't patronize me.

A woman can find her feminity by having children and raising them, and by supporting her man who is the head of the household. This is the natural order of things. Something that has been stolen from us by liberal elites in coastal cities, who are only worried about financial returns.

But yes, nature and the outdoors are nice, too.
Thank you for the feedback about appearing patronizing.

I can accept criticism and improve.

Aside: there must be more to regaining femininity than just removing masculinity.

I'm sorry if I insulted or offended. A member months ago wrote about simply not responding directly to posts in order not to aggravate, so I will do that with yours moving forward.
 
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Thank you for the feedback about appearing patronizing.

I can accept criticism and improve.

Aside: there must be more to regaining femininity than just removing masculinity.

I'm sorry if I insulted or offended. A member months ago wrote about simply not responding directly to posts in order not to aggravate, so I will do that with yours moving forward.
You're on a men's website, sweetheart. We challenge each other for sh1ts and giggles.

We don't sit around and tell each other how great the other one is. That would be a women's forum.

Edit - I challenge people for sh1ts and giggles, most men here do it to help other men be better.
 
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Easy now. I'm not that kind of guy. She would have to at least buy me dinner first.

Seriously, though, we should all be complimenting women that are proudly feminine. We should make a point of letting them know that it's a natural and beautiful thing that we find attractive.

Because the media tries 24/7 to convince them that it's not.
One thing I've always noticed is that @Lynx nkaf is always respectful and doesn't stir up drama.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah that’s a good one.

I keep telling myself “XYZ task is no big deal.”

Roughly equivalent.
yes, I like that one too Mike....'no big deal'

Sometimes I quote a portion of that Frost poem 'and miles to go before I sleep'
It strangely encourages me(just put in the work and you can rest, kind of thing)
 

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I don’t want to pay someone else to do it.
I can do it better myself…
It ain't gonna fix ,( or build ) itself.
 

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Red Seal Structural Ironworker 2018 on sites since 2008 and Red Seal Welder 2019 in school, shops, factories and sites since 1995

One of these people that took a long time to get her journeyman status(welding almost 25 years) ironworking 10 years before the Certificate of Qualification as they call it here in Canada.

I grandfathered in for the welding and had a real registered apprenticeship between 2016-2018 for the ironworking.

Right now I'm working outside of a mechanical shop. I started as a mechanic last April 2019 hurt my neck pretty good(first serious work injury of my life) and applied for an internal posting for the outdoors position where I'm away from the welding fumes and getting way more healthy exercise than working stationary as a welder/mechanic.

If this steady employment goes tits up then I still have tons of qualifications to get more work. Just heard on the radio today that this province has the lowest unemployment rate in Canada rn.
So although I make only about half of my construction rate, I'm more stable and not moving around every 2-3 months for work. Great opportunity for working on selfdevelopment and it feels good.
where are you
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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