"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What girls like(i think)

roger4250

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Ok well ever since 7th grade i noticed that girls like guys that are funny and they still do in 11th grade even if your ugly like me. So renember make a girl laugh. Make sure the jokes are funny look on the internet for funny jokes. Im not sure that this may be true in all countries or whatever but its worth a try right?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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immrtlwun

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Funny is only half of the equation. You need to have a ceratain air of confidence and ****iness. Hence ****y and Funny.

On another note, canned jokes aren't usually a very good way to get a girl to laugh. You sound too predictable. Being funny is more having witty comments to make about something or funny stories that relate to whatever it is that you're currently talking about.
 

Oni

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any tips on how to develop ways of making "witty comments"?
 

six-foot AZN '05

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listen to some stand up comedy that you like. buy a couple comedy cds and listen to them everyday. surround yourself with some funny people and y'll pick it up
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i am me

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say something kinda mean to them but make sure they know youre joking.
 

08aisaac

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I usually just make fun of her. That's basic C&F.
Read David D's newsletter, I mean, he pretty much markets C&F as his own. lol.
But I was on the phone tonight with this chick. I had her laughing the whole time, accusing her of ****.
Just practice till you're good. Confidence helps too. But I'm a natural at humor, so who knows.
 
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