"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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roger4250

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Ok well ever since 7th grade i noticed that girls like guys that are funny and they still do in 11th grade even if your ugly like me. So renember make a girl laugh. Make sure the jokes are funny look on the internet for funny jokes. Im not sure that this may be true in all countries or whatever but its worth a try right?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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immrtlwun

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Funny is only half of the equation. You need to have a ceratain air of confidence and ****iness. Hence ****y and Funny.

On another note, canned jokes aren't usually a very good way to get a girl to laugh. You sound too predictable. Being funny is more having witty comments to make about something or funny stories that relate to whatever it is that you're currently talking about.
 

Oni

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any tips on how to develop ways of making "witty comments"?
 

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listen to some stand up comedy that you like. buy a couple comedy cds and listen to them everyday. surround yourself with some funny people and y'll pick it up
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i am me

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say something kinda mean to them but make sure they know youre joking.
 

08aisaac

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I usually just make fun of her. That's basic C&F.
Read David D's newsletter, I mean, he pretty much markets C&F as his own. lol.
But I was on the phone tonight with this chick. I had her laughing the whole time, accusing her of ****.
Just practice till you're good. Confidence helps too. But I'm a natural at humor, so who knows.
 
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