Hey guys, I recently had sex with my virgin gf for her first time and was curious as to how it will change the dynamic of the relationship. She was very hesitant to have sex at first because of the very strict and sheltered way she was brought up, and what I've read these virgins become the most clingy. Now that I've gotten sex from her, should I start to pull away a little more and let her chase? What happened to you guys after fvcking a virgin?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What experiences have you guys had after taking a girl's virginity?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
I've slept with 5 virgins and I'll never sleep with another one again. I've had a few different types of experiences, from taking a girl's virginity on a ONS to having a LTR with one to something in between.
I think how clingy a girl becomes is a personality trait rather than directly correlated to taking her virginity. But if you take a clingy girls virginity...good luck. As for the dynamic changes, in my experiences, it's the same after you've slept with any girl, you're in control. You don't have to change anything if nothing needs changing though.
I think how clingy a girl becomes is a personality trait rather than directly correlated to taking her virginity. But if you take a clingy girls virginity...good luck. As for the dynamic changes, in my experiences, it's the same after you've slept with any girl, you're in control. You don't have to change anything if nothing needs changing though.
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I've never slept with a virgin so IDK but it seems kinda pointless to me. I wouldnt date a virgin girl aswell.
In my country we have a saying - if you take a girls virginity you must merry her.
In my country we have a saying - if you take a girls virginity you must merry her.