Hey guys, I recently had sex with my virgin gf for her first time and was curious as to how it will change the dynamic of the relationship. She was very hesitant to have sex at first because of the very strict and sheltered way she was brought up, and what I've read these virgins become the most clingy. Now that I've gotten sex from her, should I start to pull away a little more and let her chase? What happened to you guys after fvcking a virgin?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What experiences have you guys had after taking a girl's virginity?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
I've slept with 5 virgins and I'll never sleep with another one again. I've had a few different types of experiences, from taking a girl's virginity on a ONS to having a LTR with one to something in between.
I think how clingy a girl becomes is a personality trait rather than directly correlated to taking her virginity. But if you take a clingy girls virginity...good luck. As for the dynamic changes, in my experiences, it's the same after you've slept with any girl, you're in control. You don't have to change anything if nothing needs changing though.
I think how clingy a girl becomes is a personality trait rather than directly correlated to taking her virginity. But if you take a clingy girls virginity...good luck. As for the dynamic changes, in my experiences, it's the same after you've slept with any girl, you're in control. You don't have to change anything if nothing needs changing though.
BrainDamage92
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I've never slept with a virgin so IDK but it seems kinda pointless to me. I wouldnt date a virgin girl aswell.
In my country we have a saying - if you take a girls virginity you must merry her.
In my country we have a saying - if you take a girls virginity you must merry her.