Hey guys, I recently had sex with my virgin gf for her first time and was curious as to how it will change the dynamic of the relationship. She was very hesitant to have sex at first because of the very strict and sheltered way she was brought up, and what I've read these virgins become the most clingy. Now that I've gotten sex from her, should I start to pull away a little more and let her chase? What happened to you guys after fvcking a virgin?
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What experiences have you guys had after taking a girl's virginity?
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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I've slept with 5 virgins and I'll never sleep with another one again. I've had a few different types of experiences, from taking a girl's virginity on a ONS to having a LTR with one to something in between.
I think how clingy a girl becomes is a personality trait rather than directly correlated to taking her virginity. But if you take a clingy girls virginity...good luck. As for the dynamic changes, in my experiences, it's the same after you've slept with any girl, you're in control. You don't have to change anything if nothing needs changing though.
I think how clingy a girl becomes is a personality trait rather than directly correlated to taking her virginity. But if you take a clingy girls virginity...good luck. As for the dynamic changes, in my experiences, it's the same after you've slept with any girl, you're in control. You don't have to change anything if nothing needs changing though.
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I've never slept with a virgin so IDK but it seems kinda pointless to me. I wouldnt date a virgin girl aswell.
In my country we have a saying - if you take a girls virginity you must merry her.
In my country we have a saying - if you take a girls virginity you must merry her.