Hey guys, I recently had sex with my virgin gf for her first time and was curious as to how it will change the dynamic of the relationship. She was very hesitant to have sex at first because of the very strict and sheltered way she was brought up, and what I've read these virgins become the most clingy. Now that I've gotten sex from her, should I start to pull away a little more and let her chase? What happened to you guys after fvcking a virgin?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What experiences have you guys had after taking a girl's virginity?
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I've slept with 5 virgins and I'll never sleep with another one again. I've had a few different types of experiences, from taking a girl's virginity on a ONS to having a LTR with one to something in between.
I think how clingy a girl becomes is a personality trait rather than directly correlated to taking her virginity. But if you take a clingy girls virginity...good luck. As for the dynamic changes, in my experiences, it's the same after you've slept with any girl, you're in control. You don't have to change anything if nothing needs changing though.
I think how clingy a girl becomes is a personality trait rather than directly correlated to taking her virginity. But if you take a clingy girls virginity...good luck. As for the dynamic changes, in my experiences, it's the same after you've slept with any girl, you're in control. You don't have to change anything if nothing needs changing though.
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I've never slept with a virgin so IDK but it seems kinda pointless to me. I wouldnt date a virgin girl aswell.
In my country we have a saying - if you take a girls virginity you must merry her.
In my country we have a saying - if you take a girls virginity you must merry her.