Hey guys, I recently had sex with my virgin gf for her first time and was curious as to how it will change the dynamic of the relationship. She was very hesitant to have sex at first because of the very strict and sheltered way she was brought up, and what I've read these virgins become the most clingy. Now that I've gotten sex from her, should I start to pull away a little more and let her chase? What happened to you guys after fvcking a virgin?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What experiences have you guys had after taking a girl's virginity?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
I've slept with 5 virgins and I'll never sleep with another one again. I've had a few different types of experiences, from taking a girl's virginity on a ONS to having a LTR with one to something in between.
I think how clingy a girl becomes is a personality trait rather than directly correlated to taking her virginity. But if you take a clingy girls virginity...good luck. As for the dynamic changes, in my experiences, it's the same after you've slept with any girl, you're in control. You don't have to change anything if nothing needs changing though.
I think how clingy a girl becomes is a personality trait rather than directly correlated to taking her virginity. But if you take a clingy girls virginity...good luck. As for the dynamic changes, in my experiences, it's the same after you've slept with any girl, you're in control. You don't have to change anything if nothing needs changing though.
BrainDamage92
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I've never slept with a virgin so IDK but it seems kinda pointless to me. I wouldnt date a virgin girl aswell.
In my country we have a saying - if you take a girls virginity you must merry her.
In my country we have a saying - if you take a girls virginity you must merry her.