"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What exactly is low interest from women?

Atom Smasher

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I didn’t read the entire thread, but allow me to quote my old friend Atom Smasher who said this years ago:
“When a woman is interested in you, she will move mountains to see you. Anything less is a sign of insufficient interest.”

Nothing more is needed to gauge a woman’s interest. You must emit the aura that you are a busy, no-nonsense man who has no time for fence-sitters. Nothing short of her moving mountains to see you will do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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IKO69

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A woman can have low interest and still socialize with you. The way you really tell low interest is when you try to make a move towards something like a date. She will rebuff your advances - it will be like pulling teeth trying to make things happen (and you wont be successful). You either don't hear from her or the answer is no no matter the time or circumstance you present.

When a woman is interested you literally don't have to do anything.
 
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