She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Originally posted by dj_spain
30lbs in 3 months?That's 10lbs a month!
Haha!
That's impossible!Not even using steroids you could do that.
Be very happy if you manage to gain 4lbs of muscle a month,unless all of what you gain is fat,of course.
Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
30lbs in 3 months is too much. It´s very suspect to me. I also don´t believe in those photos he shows. It can be easily edited with photoshop or any similar program.
There´re a lot of pseudo-"experts" out there, especially on the net.
Originally posted by Jippii
I'm not even going to argue...
I gained 7,5 kg's in 8 weeks when I started being consistent when the program (that is, right from the start). I used whey protein, multivitamins and creatine.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Originally posted by Supereuroman
Also for those with concerns about body fat, I measure at 4%, and that is as good as it gets.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Jesus, so I'm foolish for getting laid a lot? I'm LETTING girls steal my sexual energy/mojo? Maybe I just enjoy being ABLE to get laid that often and get a girl off?dude if that 7-10 times is spread all across the week i think its foolish. Your letting chicks steal your mojo, how u gonna have any will to bulk. Sexual energy is very usful don't waste it on reacreational sex.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
And that's why when you're on that dry spell you're better off WITHOUT masturbation. Your energy levels usually rise.Originally posted by Adam See
Sex won't affect your results much at all and will probably be more beneficial in the long term. But I wouldn't advise going to the gym in a more dosile state (i.e. just after ejaculation) if it can be avoided. Sexual energy can be used for lots of great things.
wrongOriginally posted by HereToImprove
I have found that women are generally not into the short and huge type, so if you are short, stay of normal build.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.