She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Originally posted by dj_spain
30lbs in 3 months?That's 10lbs a month!
Haha!
That's impossible!Not even using steroids you could do that.
Be very happy if you manage to gain 4lbs of muscle a month,unless all of what you gain is fat,of course.
Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
30lbs in 3 months is too much. It´s very suspect to me. I also don´t believe in those photos he shows. It can be easily edited with photoshop or any similar program.
There´re a lot of pseudo-"experts" out there, especially on the net.
Originally posted by Jippii
I'm not even going to argue...
I gained 7,5 kg's in 8 weeks when I started being consistent when the program (that is, right from the start). I used whey protein, multivitamins and creatine.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Originally posted by Supereuroman
Also for those with concerns about body fat, I measure at 4%, and that is as good as it gets.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Jesus, so I'm foolish for getting laid a lot? I'm LETTING girls steal my sexual energy/mojo? Maybe I just enjoy being ABLE to get laid that often and get a girl off?dude if that 7-10 times is spread all across the week i think its foolish. Your letting chicks steal your mojo, how u gonna have any will to bulk. Sexual energy is very usful don't waste it on reacreational sex.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
And that's why when you're on that dry spell you're better off WITHOUT masturbation. Your energy levels usually rise.Originally posted by Adam See
Sex won't affect your results much at all and will probably be more beneficial in the long term. But I wouldn't advise going to the gym in a more dosile state (i.e. just after ejaculation) if it can be avoided. Sexual energy can be used for lots of great things.
wrongOriginally posted by HereToImprove
I have found that women are generally not into the short and huge type, so if you are short, stay of normal build.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.