Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What does your room look like? [pics]

al77

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Originally posted by diablo

To everyone else... you all are living in rooms right now. Most of you have a camera or some way of getting pictures onto the internet. Lets start seeing some results - 550+ views and only 2 rooms have been shown? Give me a break... like someone else said, you don't have to have a mansion - lets see how you live!! :p
It is a good comment, which leads to a conclusion: mostly people either have horrible rooms or too lazy (less likely).
if they have cool places, sure they will post the pics.
I am just looking at my place and it is not conducive to even think about a camera....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Eternal

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Originally posted by al77
It is a good comment, which leads to a conclusion: mostly people either have horrible rooms or too lazy (less likely).
if they have cool places, sure they will post the pics.
I am just looking at my place and it is not conducive to even think about a camera....
Mines barely conduvice to life.
 

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Nice pix so far guys!

I noticed the prominent boxes of tissues...

;)

:cheer:
 

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My room:


Picture from the doorway, where you can see my maple bed.



A shot of the room from the bed, you can see the shelf where I keep all my colognes and collectibles.



My desk, where I work on the computer or do my homework. Great for watching dvds while lieing on the bed.



My closet full of suits, dress shirts, and all my other casual clothes.



Thanks to ImageShack for Free Image Hosting
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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diablo

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It's an old A&F bag from my days working there. I think it was from Winter 2004 (Adult large holiday shopper). You could try eBay...
 

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Diablo, i checked out ebay, most of the bigger posters (50x40) go for $80! ****ing crazy.

One's i found for $15 were this size. http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&category=28009&item=7332379051&rd=1

This is the same size as the ones by your computer if im not mistaken.

Now, can i just go to A&F and ask if i can buy some posters? May be lie that im a promoter at a club and will put the posters in the bathroom? :)
 

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The A&F posters can be expensive. I'd like to get one of those big ones that are at the entrance of the store.
 

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My pimp pad cont....
Here is my shower:
http://img186.echo.cx/my.php?image=picture40145uc.jpg

Here is my computer / desk which is seperated from my bed but in the same room (Keep alcs on top there):
http://img186.echo.cx/img186/6097/picture47994bs.jpg

Here is my bed + art i made:
http://img186.echo.cx/img186/7885/picture97113xt.jpg

And here is a pic of my room (top floor) from my back garden, my pool and suana are at the front of the house:
http://img186.echo.cx/img186/8066/picture3pu.jpg

:rockon:

My room was really messy when i took these, and i have my stereo and tv infront of the bed where my clothes are.
 

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I really like some of yalls rooms. Makes me feel like mine is cluttered, but I don't care, I love my little pad. So here it is for your viewing pleasure.

Pic 1 - Main Section of my room
In this picture you can see my bed, its a nice queen size and fits me well. Above that, we have rock n roll theatre, and my awards from track n field (medals) and baseball(plaques). On the right, you can see my acoustic guitar, which is fun as hell to just session sometimes. As well as my terps sign! Go Maryland!

Pic 2 - Entertainment Center
In this picture my computer is on the left, tv, stereo, printer, xbox, all that crap. Have a nice lil dvd collection including face/off, garden state, the boondock saints, eurotrip, cruel intentions, the girl next door, etc... Also, my sexy sports illustrated swim suit edition above the stereo. ;)

Pic 3 - Shelves
In this picture just my book shelf. I love to read fantasy, and history. Some of the titles include, Chainfire by TG, Harry Potter, Guns Germs and Steel by JD. Also, on the right is hat rack, i love wearing hats.

Pic 4 - Closet
In this picture we got dresser, and clothes, and just random stuff. I wear a lot of designer and company brands. I like dressing nice. Also, just peaking up in this picture is my snowboard, but its summer :-/

Pic 5 - Exit Stage Right
Just more crap...

Pic 6 - Bathroom
Pic 7 - Cabinet
Just clean, straight up normal bathroom, its all good. To go along with it we ahve the medicine cabinet filled with essentials. Mainly my favorite cologne "intuition" for men by estee lauder.

Pic 8 - My Girl and I at prom
Good stuff

Thats it, enjoy, comments are welcome.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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diablo

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Originally posted by Oxide
Now, can i just go to A&F and ask if i can buy some posters? May be lie that im a promoter at a club and will put the posters in the bathroom? :)
Not to get off topic (because people are actually starting to post pictures of their rooms - keep it up!), but the answer to your question is "no". A&F gets new posters every floor set, about once a season. The old posters are given to whoever was working the night they were taken down. They wouldn't care if you're a promoter, a club owner, or Jesus re-incarnate. However, you can probably pick one up on eBay like you've found.

Keep posting your rooms, people!
 

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Originally posted by Live
Pic 2 - Entertainment Center
In this picture my computer is on the left, tv, stereo, printer, xbox, all that crap. Have a nice lil dvd collection including face/off, garden state, the boondock saints, eurotrip, cruel intentions, the girl next door, etc... Also, my sexy sports illustrated swim suit edition above the stereo. ;)

LOL, notice the Hanson album on iTunes on the computer.


Nice room though.
 

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I like their one song "this time around". its pretty nice
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Dillinger
D,
I see you with that Fierce cologne , that makes the lady's come running. All Dj's should own it.
I got Fierce as a gift, it's crap, not that good, probably some generic stuff marketed with A&F name.
 

rapsta

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I always keep it all messed up in my place, in order to make the ladies feel like the trash they are
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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