"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What does your room look like? [pics]

al77

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Originally posted by diablo

To everyone else... you all are living in rooms right now. Most of you have a camera or some way of getting pictures onto the internet. Lets start seeing some results - 550+ views and only 2 rooms have been shown? Give me a break... like someone else said, you don't have to have a mansion - lets see how you live!! :p
It is a good comment, which leads to a conclusion: mostly people either have horrible rooms or too lazy (less likely).
if they have cool places, sure they will post the pics.
I am just looking at my place and it is not conducive to even think about a camera....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Eternal

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Originally posted by al77
It is a good comment, which leads to a conclusion: mostly people either have horrible rooms or too lazy (less likely).
if they have cool places, sure they will post the pics.
I am just looking at my place and it is not conducive to even think about a camera....
Mines barely conduvice to life.
 

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Nice pix so far guys!

I noticed the prominent boxes of tissues...

;)

:cheer:
 

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My room:


Picture from the doorway, where you can see my maple bed.



A shot of the room from the bed, you can see the shelf where I keep all my colognes and collectibles.



My desk, where I work on the computer or do my homework. Great for watching dvds while lieing on the bed.



My closet full of suits, dress shirts, and all my other casual clothes.



Thanks to ImageShack for Free Image Hosting
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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diablo

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It's an old A&F bag from my days working there. I think it was from Winter 2004 (Adult large holiday shopper). You could try eBay...
 

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Diablo, i checked out ebay, most of the bigger posters (50x40) go for $80! ****ing crazy.

One's i found for $15 were this size. http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&category=28009&item=7332379051&rd=1

This is the same size as the ones by your computer if im not mistaken.

Now, can i just go to A&F and ask if i can buy some posters? May be lie that im a promoter at a club and will put the posters in the bathroom? :)
 

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The A&F posters can be expensive. I'd like to get one of those big ones that are at the entrance of the store.
 

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My pimp pad cont....
Here is my shower:
http://img186.echo.cx/my.php?image=picture40145uc.jpg

Here is my computer / desk which is seperated from my bed but in the same room (Keep alcs on top there):
http://img186.echo.cx/img186/6097/picture47994bs.jpg

Here is my bed + art i made:
http://img186.echo.cx/img186/7885/picture97113xt.jpg

And here is a pic of my room (top floor) from my back garden, my pool and suana are at the front of the house:
http://img186.echo.cx/img186/8066/picture3pu.jpg

:rockon:

My room was really messy when i took these, and i have my stereo and tv infront of the bed where my clothes are.
 

Live

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I really like some of yalls rooms. Makes me feel like mine is cluttered, but I don't care, I love my little pad. So here it is for your viewing pleasure.

Pic 1 - Main Section of my room
In this picture you can see my bed, its a nice queen size and fits me well. Above that, we have rock n roll theatre, and my awards from track n field (medals) and baseball(plaques). On the right, you can see my acoustic guitar, which is fun as hell to just session sometimes. As well as my terps sign! Go Maryland!

Pic 2 - Entertainment Center
In this picture my computer is on the left, tv, stereo, printer, xbox, all that crap. Have a nice lil dvd collection including face/off, garden state, the boondock saints, eurotrip, cruel intentions, the girl next door, etc... Also, my sexy sports illustrated swim suit edition above the stereo. ;)

Pic 3 - Shelves
In this picture just my book shelf. I love to read fantasy, and history. Some of the titles include, Chainfire by TG, Harry Potter, Guns Germs and Steel by JD. Also, on the right is hat rack, i love wearing hats.

Pic 4 - Closet
In this picture we got dresser, and clothes, and just random stuff. I wear a lot of designer and company brands. I like dressing nice. Also, just peaking up in this picture is my snowboard, but its summer :-/

Pic 5 - Exit Stage Right
Just more crap...

Pic 6 - Bathroom
Pic 7 - Cabinet
Just clean, straight up normal bathroom, its all good. To go along with it we ahve the medicine cabinet filled with essentials. Mainly my favorite cologne "intuition" for men by estee lauder.

Pic 8 - My Girl and I at prom
Good stuff

Thats it, enjoy, comments are welcome.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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diablo

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Originally posted by Oxide
Now, can i just go to A&F and ask if i can buy some posters? May be lie that im a promoter at a club and will put the posters in the bathroom? :)
Not to get off topic (because people are actually starting to post pictures of their rooms - keep it up!), but the answer to your question is "no". A&F gets new posters every floor set, about once a season. The old posters are given to whoever was working the night they were taken down. They wouldn't care if you're a promoter, a club owner, or Jesus re-incarnate. However, you can probably pick one up on eBay like you've found.

Keep posting your rooms, people!
 

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Originally posted by Live
Pic 2 - Entertainment Center
In this picture my computer is on the left, tv, stereo, printer, xbox, all that crap. Have a nice lil dvd collection including face/off, garden state, the boondock saints, eurotrip, cruel intentions, the girl next door, etc... Also, my sexy sports illustrated swim suit edition above the stereo. ;)

LOL, notice the Hanson album on iTunes on the computer.


Nice room though.
 

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I like their one song "this time around". its pretty nice
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Dillinger
D,
I see you with that Fierce cologne , that makes the lady's come running. All Dj's should own it.
I got Fierce as a gift, it's crap, not that good, probably some generic stuff marketed with A&F name.
 

rapsta

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I always keep it all messed up in my place, in order to make the ladies feel like the trash they are
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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