"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What does your room look like? [pics]

al77

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Originally posted by diablo

To everyone else... you all are living in rooms right now. Most of you have a camera or some way of getting pictures onto the internet. Lets start seeing some results - 550+ views and only 2 rooms have been shown? Give me a break... like someone else said, you don't have to have a mansion - lets see how you live!! :p
It is a good comment, which leads to a conclusion: mostly people either have horrible rooms or too lazy (less likely).
if they have cool places, sure they will post the pics.
I am just looking at my place and it is not conducive to even think about a camera....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Eternal

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Originally posted by al77
It is a good comment, which leads to a conclusion: mostly people either have horrible rooms or too lazy (less likely).
if they have cool places, sure they will post the pics.
I am just looking at my place and it is not conducive to even think about a camera....
Mines barely conduvice to life.
 

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Nice pix so far guys!

I noticed the prominent boxes of tissues...

;)

:cheer:
 

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My room:


Picture from the doorway, where you can see my maple bed.



A shot of the room from the bed, you can see the shelf where I keep all my colognes and collectibles.



My desk, where I work on the computer or do my homework. Great for watching dvds while lieing on the bed.



My closet full of suits, dress shirts, and all my other casual clothes.



Thanks to ImageShack for Free Image Hosting
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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diablo

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It's an old A&F bag from my days working there. I think it was from Winter 2004 (Adult large holiday shopper). You could try eBay...
 

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Diablo, i checked out ebay, most of the bigger posters (50x40) go for $80! ****ing crazy.

One's i found for $15 were this size. http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&category=28009&item=7332379051&rd=1

This is the same size as the ones by your computer if im not mistaken.

Now, can i just go to A&F and ask if i can buy some posters? May be lie that im a promoter at a club and will put the posters in the bathroom? :)
 

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The A&F posters can be expensive. I'd like to get one of those big ones that are at the entrance of the store.
 

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My pimp pad cont....
Here is my shower:
http://img186.echo.cx/my.php?image=picture40145uc.jpg

Here is my computer / desk which is seperated from my bed but in the same room (Keep alcs on top there):
http://img186.echo.cx/img186/6097/picture47994bs.jpg

Here is my bed + art i made:
http://img186.echo.cx/img186/7885/picture97113xt.jpg

And here is a pic of my room (top floor) from my back garden, my pool and suana are at the front of the house:
http://img186.echo.cx/img186/8066/picture3pu.jpg

:rockon:

My room was really messy when i took these, and i have my stereo and tv infront of the bed where my clothes are.
 

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I really like some of yalls rooms. Makes me feel like mine is cluttered, but I don't care, I love my little pad. So here it is for your viewing pleasure.

Pic 1 - Main Section of my room
In this picture you can see my bed, its a nice queen size and fits me well. Above that, we have rock n roll theatre, and my awards from track n field (medals) and baseball(plaques). On the right, you can see my acoustic guitar, which is fun as hell to just session sometimes. As well as my terps sign! Go Maryland!

Pic 2 - Entertainment Center
In this picture my computer is on the left, tv, stereo, printer, xbox, all that crap. Have a nice lil dvd collection including face/off, garden state, the boondock saints, eurotrip, cruel intentions, the girl next door, etc... Also, my sexy sports illustrated swim suit edition above the stereo. ;)

Pic 3 - Shelves
In this picture just my book shelf. I love to read fantasy, and history. Some of the titles include, Chainfire by TG, Harry Potter, Guns Germs and Steel by JD. Also, on the right is hat rack, i love wearing hats.

Pic 4 - Closet
In this picture we got dresser, and clothes, and just random stuff. I wear a lot of designer and company brands. I like dressing nice. Also, just peaking up in this picture is my snowboard, but its summer :-/

Pic 5 - Exit Stage Right
Just more crap...

Pic 6 - Bathroom
Pic 7 - Cabinet
Just clean, straight up normal bathroom, its all good. To go along with it we ahve the medicine cabinet filled with essentials. Mainly my favorite cologne "intuition" for men by estee lauder.

Pic 8 - My Girl and I at prom
Good stuff

Thats it, enjoy, comments are welcome.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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diablo

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Originally posted by Oxide
Now, can i just go to A&F and ask if i can buy some posters? May be lie that im a promoter at a club and will put the posters in the bathroom? :)
Not to get off topic (because people are actually starting to post pictures of their rooms - keep it up!), but the answer to your question is "no". A&F gets new posters every floor set, about once a season. The old posters are given to whoever was working the night they were taken down. They wouldn't care if you're a promoter, a club owner, or Jesus re-incarnate. However, you can probably pick one up on eBay like you've found.

Keep posting your rooms, people!
 

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Originally posted by Live
Pic 2 - Entertainment Center
In this picture my computer is on the left, tv, stereo, printer, xbox, all that crap. Have a nice lil dvd collection including face/off, garden state, the boondock saints, eurotrip, cruel intentions, the girl next door, etc... Also, my sexy sports illustrated swim suit edition above the stereo. ;)

LOL, notice the Hanson album on iTunes on the computer.


Nice room though.
 

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I like their one song "this time around". its pretty nice
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Dillinger
D,
I see you with that Fierce cologne , that makes the lady's come running. All Dj's should own it.
I got Fierce as a gift, it's crap, not that good, probably some generic stuff marketed with A&F name.
 

rapsta

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I always keep it all messed up in my place, in order to make the ladies feel like the trash they are
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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