"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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what does typical DJ look like?

dj ben2

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Delta said:
sigh...

i encounter this kind of thing soooooooooo much on these boards these days. the "do what you want", "it doesn't matter" approach.....

see, problem with this approach is that many guys actually LIKE wearing their yu-gi-oh tshirts, khaki shorts and socks with birkenstocks.

you are not allowing for the fact that your instincts can be very very very wrong depending on who you are.

THEREFORE,

we issue basic recommendations. and we read men's fashioin mags - which would not exist if we didn't want to get laid.

delta
lol when i went to thailand there were tonnes of fake mechanical breitling JAG rolex that were sweeping second hand movements....non bayttery operated
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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the typical DJ on this website is a cookie cutter prep who buys $300 jeans, bright spotlight yellow polos, and wears flip flops even when it's cold outside (joking..a little)

however, i wear d1ckies pants/levi jeans/lee jeans with solid color shirts with vans or chuck taylors
 

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Clothes, something to do with what girls you are prepared to attract. I used to think that most expensive clothes were the best thing to attract a girl. And doing this I wasnt being myself, I would wear all abercrombie or expensive european brands like FC.UK or Diesel. I now wear clothes that makek me feel comfortable with myself, I wear clothing expressing my music. If that makes anysense, I shop at like pac sun and hot topic for band shirts, and hoodies. I dont totally dress scrubbed out though I wear good fitting clothes, that look nice.
 

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The most important thing, when it comes to appearance, is to look congruent and well kempt.

What brand you buy is of little important if any. The most important thing is how you arrange what you wear - how you match your shirts with your pants, and your shoes with your belt etc. Symmetry = beauty in this world.

My suggestion, to those who do not have a flying clue how to dress, is to find a good looking girl, "befriend" her, and get her to come with you to buy clothes. She will give you excellent opinions and set you on your way.

To those who believe that befriending girls is anti-DJ, keep in mind that you are befriending her solely to get shopping advice, which is of high utility.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Luveno said:
To those who believe that befriending girls is anti-DJ, keep in mind that you are befriending her solely to get shopping advice, which is of high utility.
Those people are full of hogwash.
If you're befriending them because you want to get into their pants or because you want their opinions on relationships, then yes, that's the road to hell.
However, befriending women in order to acclimate yourself to the female psyche or to get relevant opinions on clothing or self-grooming is a very good move. If you can prove to yourself that you are capable of maintaining an equal footing in any opposite-gender friendship, and that you can carry your own, you've taken a large step towards entering their world as a Trojan Horse :up:

Some of the best clothing tips and fashion awakenings I've ever encountered have been by virtue of talking to my chick friends.
 
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