dj ben2
Senior Don Juan
lol when i went to thailand there were tonnes of fake mechanical breitling JAG rolex that were sweeping second hand movements....non bayttery operatedDelta said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
what does typical DJ look like?
- Thread starter haram
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
tr0ublemaker
Don Juan
the typical DJ on this website is a cookie cutter prep who buys $300 jeans, bright spotlight yellow polos, and wears flip flops even when it's cold outside (joking..a little)
however, i wear d1ckies pants/levi jeans/lee jeans with solid color shirts with vans or chuck taylors
however, i wear d1ckies pants/levi jeans/lee jeans with solid color shirts with vans or chuck taylors
edmond
Senior Don Juan
Don´t be a Clone, find out what makes YOU look good.
Clothes, something to do with what girls you are prepared to attract. I used to think that most expensive clothes were the best thing to attract a girl. And doing this I wasnt being myself, I would wear all abercrombie or expensive european brands like FC.UK or Diesel. I now wear clothes that makek me feel comfortable with myself, I wear clothing expressing my music. If that makes anysense, I shop at like pac sun and hot topic for band shirts, and hoodies. I dont totally dress scrubbed out though I wear good fitting clothes, that look nice.
The most important thing, when it comes to appearance, is to look congruent and well kempt.
What brand you buy is of little important if any. The most important thing is how you arrange what you wear - how you match your shirts with your pants, and your shoes with your belt etc. Symmetry = beauty in this world.
My suggestion, to those who do not have a flying clue how to dress, is to find a good looking girl, "befriend" her, and get her to come with you to buy clothes. She will give you excellent opinions and set you on your way.
To those who believe that befriending girls is anti-DJ, keep in mind that you are befriending her solely to get shopping advice, which is of high utility.
What brand you buy is of little important if any. The most important thing is how you arrange what you wear - how you match your shirts with your pants, and your shoes with your belt etc. Symmetry = beauty in this world.
My suggestion, to those who do not have a flying clue how to dress, is to find a good looking girl, "befriend" her, and get her to come with you to buy clothes. She will give you excellent opinions and set you on your way.
To those who believe that befriending girls is anti-DJ, keep in mind that you are befriending her solely to get shopping advice, which is of high utility.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Those people are full of hogwash.Luveno said:
If you're befriending them because you want to get into their pants or because you want their opinions on relationships, then yes, that's the road to hell.
However, befriending women in order to acclimate yourself to the female psyche or to get relevant opinions on clothing or self-grooming is a very good move. If you can prove to yourself that you are capable of maintaining an equal footing in any opposite-gender friendship, and that you can carry your own, you've taken a large step towards entering their world as a Trojan Horse
Some of the best clothing tips and fashion awakenings I've ever encountered have been by virtue of talking to my chick friends.