Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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what does typical DJ look like?

dj ben2

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Delta said:
sigh...

i encounter this kind of thing soooooooooo much on these boards these days. the "do what you want", "it doesn't matter" approach.....

see, problem with this approach is that many guys actually LIKE wearing their yu-gi-oh tshirts, khaki shorts and socks with birkenstocks.

you are not allowing for the fact that your instincts can be very very very wrong depending on who you are.

THEREFORE,

we issue basic recommendations. and we read men's fashioin mags - which would not exist if we didn't want to get laid.

delta
lol when i went to thailand there were tonnes of fake mechanical breitling JAG rolex that were sweeping second hand movements....non bayttery operated
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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the typical DJ on this website is a cookie cutter prep who buys $300 jeans, bright spotlight yellow polos, and wears flip flops even when it's cold outside (joking..a little)

however, i wear d1ckies pants/levi jeans/lee jeans with solid color shirts with vans or chuck taylors
 

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Clothes, something to do with what girls you are prepared to attract. I used to think that most expensive clothes were the best thing to attract a girl. And doing this I wasnt being myself, I would wear all abercrombie or expensive european brands like FC.UK or Diesel. I now wear clothes that makek me feel comfortable with myself, I wear clothing expressing my music. If that makes anysense, I shop at like pac sun and hot topic for band shirts, and hoodies. I dont totally dress scrubbed out though I wear good fitting clothes, that look nice.
 

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The most important thing, when it comes to appearance, is to look congruent and well kempt.

What brand you buy is of little important if any. The most important thing is how you arrange what you wear - how you match your shirts with your pants, and your shoes with your belt etc. Symmetry = beauty in this world.

My suggestion, to those who do not have a flying clue how to dress, is to find a good looking girl, "befriend" her, and get her to come with you to buy clothes. She will give you excellent opinions and set you on your way.

To those who believe that befriending girls is anti-DJ, keep in mind that you are befriending her solely to get shopping advice, which is of high utility.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Luveno said:
To those who believe that befriending girls is anti-DJ, keep in mind that you are befriending her solely to get shopping advice, which is of high utility.
Those people are full of hogwash.
If you're befriending them because you want to get into their pants or because you want their opinions on relationships, then yes, that's the road to hell.
However, befriending women in order to acclimate yourself to the female psyche or to get relevant opinions on clothing or self-grooming is a very good move. If you can prove to yourself that you are capable of maintaining an equal footing in any opposite-gender friendship, and that you can carry your own, you've taken a large step towards entering their world as a Trojan Horse :up:

Some of the best clothing tips and fashion awakenings I've ever encountered have been by virtue of talking to my chick friends.
 
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