dj ben2
Senior Don Juan
lol when i went to thailand there were tonnes of fake mechanical breitling JAG rolex that were sweeping second hand movements....non bayttery operatedDelta said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
what does typical DJ look like?
- Thread starter haram
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
tr0ublemaker
Don Juan
the typical DJ on this website is a cookie cutter prep who buys $300 jeans, bright spotlight yellow polos, and wears flip flops even when it's cold outside (joking..a little)
however, i wear d1ckies pants/levi jeans/lee jeans with solid color shirts with vans or chuck taylors
however, i wear d1ckies pants/levi jeans/lee jeans with solid color shirts with vans or chuck taylors
edmond
Senior Don Juan
Don´t be a Clone, find out what makes YOU look good.
Clothes, something to do with what girls you are prepared to attract. I used to think that most expensive clothes were the best thing to attract a girl. And doing this I wasnt being myself, I would wear all abercrombie or expensive european brands like FC.UK or Diesel. I now wear clothes that makek me feel comfortable with myself, I wear clothing expressing my music. If that makes anysense, I shop at like pac sun and hot topic for band shirts, and hoodies. I dont totally dress scrubbed out though I wear good fitting clothes, that look nice.
The most important thing, when it comes to appearance, is to look congruent and well kempt.
What brand you buy is of little important if any. The most important thing is how you arrange what you wear - how you match your shirts with your pants, and your shoes with your belt etc. Symmetry = beauty in this world.
My suggestion, to those who do not have a flying clue how to dress, is to find a good looking girl, "befriend" her, and get her to come with you to buy clothes. She will give you excellent opinions and set you on your way.
To those who believe that befriending girls is anti-DJ, keep in mind that you are befriending her solely to get shopping advice, which is of high utility.
What brand you buy is of little important if any. The most important thing is how you arrange what you wear - how you match your shirts with your pants, and your shoes with your belt etc. Symmetry = beauty in this world.
My suggestion, to those who do not have a flying clue how to dress, is to find a good looking girl, "befriend" her, and get her to come with you to buy clothes. She will give you excellent opinions and set you on your way.
To those who believe that befriending girls is anti-DJ, keep in mind that you are befriending her solely to get shopping advice, which is of high utility.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Those people are full of hogwash.Luveno said:
If you're befriending them because you want to get into their pants or because you want their opinions on relationships, then yes, that's the road to hell.
However, befriending women in order to acclimate yourself to the female psyche or to get relevant opinions on clothing or self-grooming is a very good move. If you can prove to yourself that you are capable of maintaining an equal footing in any opposite-gender friendship, and that you can carry your own, you've taken a large step towards entering their world as a Trojan Horse
Some of the best clothing tips and fashion awakenings I've ever encountered have been by virtue of talking to my chick friends.