"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What does this mean?

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This weird thing happened. I saw the girl i've been macking for awhile get jealous. Before my class with her I saw her in the halls I was talking to a girl and when she got to the class. She sat next to me and she was like:

Her: Was that your gf?
(Me being a DJ)
Me: Are you jealous?
Her: Oh yes, I'm madly in love with you.

Then I told her that she was just a friend.

It sounded and looked like jealousy. Any thoughts?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I liked the way you played that question off man. From what you posted it sounds like she has some sort of interest in you...think about this- if she saw you with some girl and she didnt have any real interest...she would NOT go out of her way to ASK you about her.

Sincerely
Smooth Player 056
 
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She wouldn't have asked you that " is that your gf " question if she weren't a bit concerned about it.
 
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She want to fock.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Is that your girlfriend?"
"Yeah, one of em"

:cheer: I'm a pimp.

And that girl was definitely jealous.
 
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I have another one:
I might be looking into this too much. The girl above doesn't bring her binder to class (slack class) and she asks for me to put them in my binder. Does this mean anything?
 
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This nice thing to do is say "ok, I'll put it in my binder", the "a$$ hole" thing would be to say " No, now get away from me 'bitc*"
...find something to say that is between those two things.

I.E.

her: will you put this in your binder

you: For a small fee of $4 I can put it in here. *sly smile* (be playful but serious.)

She is testing to see how nice you are.
 
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