"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What does this mean?

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This weird thing happened. I saw the girl i've been macking for awhile get jealous. Before my class with her I saw her in the halls I was talking to a girl and when she got to the class. She sat next to me and she was like:

Her: Was that your gf?
(Me being a DJ)
Me: Are you jealous?
Her: Oh yes, I'm madly in love with you.

Then I told her that she was just a friend.

It sounded and looked like jealousy. Any thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I liked the way you played that question off man. From what you posted it sounds like she has some sort of interest in you...think about this- if she saw you with some girl and she didnt have any real interest...she would NOT go out of her way to ASK you about her.

Sincerely
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She wouldn't have asked you that " is that your gf " question if she weren't a bit concerned about it.
 
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She want to fock.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Is that your girlfriend?"
"Yeah, one of em"

:cheer: I'm a pimp.

And that girl was definitely jealous.
 
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I have another one:
I might be looking into this too much. The girl above doesn't bring her binder to class (slack class) and she asks for me to put them in my binder. Does this mean anything?
 
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This nice thing to do is say "ok, I'll put it in my binder", the "a$$ hole" thing would be to say " No, now get away from me 'bitc*"
...find something to say that is between those two things.

I.E.

her: will you put this in your binder

you: For a small fee of $4 I can put it in here. *sly smile* (be playful but serious.)

She is testing to see how nice you are.
 
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