"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SgtSplacker

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It's funny because I have heard women say this and treat it like it's some testament to how awesome they are. Like a "worth it" badge.

Most women I meet not only expect men to always diffuse their drama but they place value in how much bs a man is willing to tolerate from them. Like as if it is a good way to gauge their smv by driving us nuts.

So acting like a complete child on one side but expecting to be treated like an adult on the other side and I still have to listen to the nonsense of women not being treated exactly like men are. When they don't maintain themselves exactly like men do.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Could it also mean that you won't get or keep her if you don't pass her sh!t tests?
About as much as other women. Some women you lose by being too strong depending on the situation, others fall for you because of it. It's all dependent on the woman and what situation you are in when giving/not giving a sh!t.
 

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It's funny because I have heard women say this and treat it like it's some testament to how awesome they are. Like a "worth it" badge.

Most women I meet not only expect men to always diffuse their drama but they place value in how much bs a man is willing to tolerate from them. Like as if it is a good way to gauge their smv by driving us nuts.

So acting like a complete child on one side but expecting to be treated like an adult on the other side and I still have to listen to the nonsense of women not being treated exactly like men are. When they don't maintain themselves exactly like men do.
Yeah. I cringe when I hear, "I like a guy to put me in my place sometimes" or "I like a guy who doesn't put up with my shyte."

<Putting on my Capt. Obvious hat>

How about if you act like a mature adult so he doesn't need to "put you in your place"? Did you ever think of that lol?
 

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"If you can't live with me at the height of my bipolar depression, you don't deserve me at my normal state of mind".

This is a solid introduction to manipulation. It triggers your savior complex while also preparing you to be in direct line of fire.

Your complain, sense of self, well being, standard and value correctly deleted by one sentence.

Sometimes, you have to agree that there are some very evil, very smart, genius in psychology and highly manipulative people behind feminism.
A civilian (non DJ) is no match to them.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It means: "I don't want to be held accountable for any of my actions"

The best response is: "It goes both ways b!tch"

And she can't get mad at you for calling her a b!tch because if she can't handle you at your worst then she doesn't deserve you at your best.
:D:D:D
 

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Given its full context this statement is a red flag.

Simply put: I expect you to put up with my Sh!t! If you don't like it, your 'less' of a man and can't handle a real woman like me.

Assh0le behaviour.
 

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I swear, it's stuff like this I need to remember when I argue. She can get mad at how some girl threw herself at me and I had fun with it. Well hey babe if you can't handle me at my worst.... It'll probably work lol
 

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Who would ever want to deal with "her worst"?

I smell red flag!
 

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It's funny because I have heard women say this and treat it like it's some testament to how awesome they are. Like a "worth it" badge.

Most women I meet not only expect men to always diffuse their drama but they place value in how much bs a man is willing to tolerate from them. Like as if it is a good way to gauge their smv by driving us nuts.

So acting like a complete child on one side but expecting to be treated like an adult on the other side and I still have to listen to the nonsense of women not being treated exactly like men are. When they don't maintain themselves exactly like men do.
agreed, reminds me of a meme actually

http://images.memes.com/meme/1028878
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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the quote is just a girl's way of taking responsibility off herself, therefore it's not her job to control her insecurities, anger, jealousy, sex drive, etc. it's your job to deal with that **** because she can't control herself

naturally she doesn't want to admit that it's an enormous character flaw to lack self control, so she'd want to spin it to be a character flaw on your part so that she doesn't have to work on it
 

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the quote is just a girl's way of taking responsibility off herself, therefore it's not her job to control her insecurities, anger, jealousy, sex drive, etc. it's your job to deal with that **** because she can't control herself

naturally she doesn't want to admit that it's an enormous character flaw to lack self control, so she'd want to spin it to be a character flaw on your part so that she doesn't have to work on it
The powers of female rationalization are amazing.
 

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I have a 60 y/o friend with a hot 25 y/o wife. Sometimes I will be over at his house, and she's having a depressed day, where she just lays on the couch and cries. It totally does not phase him. He just ignores her. I think most male instinct is that they have to solve the woman's problems. They feel responsible if they can't. But there's no fixing crazy. Guys who know how to deal with it will just ignore it until her mood changes.
 

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I have a 60 y/o friend with a hot 25 y/o wife. Sometimes I will be over at his house, and she's having a depressed day, where she just lays on the couch and cries. It totally does not phase him. He just ignores her. I think most male instinct is that they have to solve the woman's problems. They feel responsible if they can't. But there's no fixing crazy. Guys who know how to deal with it will just ignore it until her mood changes.
Society trains men from a young age to be white knights and cannon fodder sacrificial lambs.

In other words.. men are trained to see female life as more valuable than male life and female happiness more important than male happiness. Women believe this by default. They truly believe they are more important than you. Never forget that.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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