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War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
What did you guys do?
Wtf? Are you retarded? Not interested? She let him finger her!
I'm not quite sure what what she said means, but I know she's interested, but if I had to guess, I'd say she's never met someone who was able escalate things to that point so fast and was just taken a bit by surprise.
I'm not quite sure what what she said means, but I know she's interested, but if I had to guess, I'd say she's never met someone who was able escalate things to that point so fast and was just taken a bit by surprise.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
I see, I had a friend who fingered this one girl and she said something along the same lines. I heard later on that she liked the guy but he was too aggressive and it was sort of a turn off for her. I wouldn't stop pursuing though.
ok basiclly i had this girl with me watching movies at my house, and we began hooking up. i was a follower of DiCarlo's escalation ladder because it makes sense to me, so I followed his escalation ramp (for the most part)
Link is here: http://www.directnaturalgame.com/Techniques/kino-escalation-ladder.html
anyways thinks were getting heated up and i was on top of her and i was rubbing her body and got close to the holiest of holies. she gave resistance so i just made a joke and kept hooking up with her with no problem.
second time the same thing happened but i was closer, she said we havnet been going out enough and i said thats fine by me and keep hooking up.
third time was the charm i guess because i got it with no resistance at all for a minute then she made me stop....im pretty sure it was because she was getting even more heated up and things could have gotten out of her hands from there, but thats just my guess.
she told me the line i said in my original post a couple days after it happened
if it means anythin I am pretty sure (95%) she is a virgin, havent asked her though and i havent talked about it at all with her
Link is here: http://www.directnaturalgame.com/Techniques/kino-escalation-ladder.html
anyways thinks were getting heated up and i was on top of her and i was rubbing her body and got close to the holiest of holies. she gave resistance so i just made a joke and kept hooking up with her with no problem.
second time the same thing happened but i was closer, she said we havnet been going out enough and i said thats fine by me and keep hooking up.
third time was the charm i guess because i got it with no resistance at all for a minute then she made me stop....im pretty sure it was because she was getting even more heated up and things could have gotten out of her hands from there, but thats just my guess.
she told me the line i said in my original post a couple days after it happened
if it means anythin I am pretty sure (95%) she is a virgin, havent asked her though and i havent talked about it at all with her
She has remorse for what happened. You need to re-assure her that you guys got caught in the moment and could not resist her. She is also worried that you might be after one thing and if shercontinued she would just be another lay for you.
RAPPORT, RAPPORT, RAPPORT, RAPPORT.
Get to know her more, but more importantly she needs to know who YOU ARE. she needs to know that you really care for her and not just another notch on your belt. If she is just a lay, and a virgin. PLease dont lay her because that is some f*ck up ****. It may mean nothing to you, but a girl will never forget.
RAPPORT, RAPPORT, RAPPORT, RAPPORT.
Get to know her more, but more importantly she needs to know who YOU ARE. she needs to know that you really care for her and not just another notch on your belt. If she is just a lay, and a virgin. PLease dont lay her because that is some f*ck up ****. It may mean nothing to you, but a girl will never forget.
Makes sense, only, i don't really know how to do that without looking like an total AFC.trd323 said:
now i already thought i established rapport on a few of the phone calls with her and on the couple of dates. i think she thinks i'm a player (in abundance of other girls), so that makes what u said definitely true.
only, i told her i'd be exclusive afterwards....that might have ben AFC in aftersight but we all make mistakes. at least i didnt ask HER to be exclusive
Trust me, I won't. Shes too cool for me to do something like that to her. Plus I'm not one of those fvcked up guys like some people who are out to get vengeance on women because they were slighted bythem in the past.trd323 said:
typical
Master Don Juan
Umm ease up a tad okay, don't follow those stupid "lay" guides they border on date rape material, you do not want to be caught up in that crap.
Me thinks you need to learn your own way of seduction and not follow a set routine they don't work.
Me thinks you need to learn your own way of seduction and not follow a set routine they don't work.
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If she is not a virgin, probably anti-slvt defense...
Keep on trying.
Keep on trying.
do u mean that in escalation or in just talking to her? Because i go by RSD's "being yourself" type deal; no canned lines, all me being confident in myself and funny.typical said:
and i use the dicarlo's ladder just as a guideline because 1) it has a natural flow withs its isolation (imo) and 2) there is always the chance for girls to put in their LMR. i never would have f*** closed on that date, and really, i didnt need to!
i get what your saying though