"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What does this mean, what should I do?!
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Grab her hand pull it closer to your body and say "let go of my hand" then pull her in a little more and say "Let go of my hand"... "what are you doing?" "stop that..."Arsinel said:
lol
instead of talking, now your touching and you are able to test the waters...
i.e. see how she responds to physical contact
KEEP IN MIND, while you do this HOLD HER HAND TIGHT lol .... at first she might try to pull away, but see if you can tame her just like a cowboy tames a mustang, and her hand will stay..
then, say "lets get out of here and go somewhere"
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Grab her hand pull it closer to your body and say "let go of my hand" then pull her in a little more and say "Let go of my hand"... "what are you doing?" "stop that..."Arsinel said:
lol
instead of talking, now your touching and you are able to test the waters...
i.e. see how she responds to physical contact
KEEP IN MIND, while you do this HOLD HER HAND TIGHT lol .... at first she might try to pull away, but see if you can tame her just like a cowboy tames a mustang, and her hand will stay..
then, say "lets get out of here and go somewhere"
ps.. You have huge advantage... girls rarely come up to me, if I had the looks of some of these other guys, I would fck EVERY girl I talk to...
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stop walking, grab her hand and say "come with me"Arsinel said:
see if she will follow... keep in mind, after you say it, just walk away and start pulling her after you... i.e. dont ask, just do it...
take her on dance floor and try to get physical.. if this is not a club scene then TALK BACK... this is confusing? what seems to be the problem.. her talking to you means she is INTERESTED, what else do you need???? basically means if you say the right words you will fck her in the near future... case closed..
ps. I always try to ask something random to a girl to see if she is receptive.. i.e. if I am at a bus station I will ask "Do you know how often the bus comes" keep in mind, I take the same bus every day, I just ask for the sake of starting a convo...
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Go back to masturbating over Internet porn instead!
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Buck Rogers
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yesBuck Rogers said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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