"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What does this mean, what should I do?!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Grab her hand pull it closer to your body and say "let go of my hand" then pull her in a little more and say "Let go of my hand"... "what are you doing?" "stop that..."Arsinel said:
lol
instead of talking, now your touching and you are able to test the waters...
i.e. see how she responds to physical contact
KEEP IN MIND, while you do this HOLD HER HAND TIGHT lol .... at first she might try to pull away, but see if you can tame her just like a cowboy tames a mustang, and her hand will stay..
then, say "lets get out of here and go somewhere"
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Grab her hand pull it closer to your body and say "let go of my hand" then pull her in a little more and say "Let go of my hand"... "what are you doing?" "stop that..."Arsinel said:
lol
instead of talking, now your touching and you are able to test the waters...
i.e. see how she responds to physical contact
KEEP IN MIND, while you do this HOLD HER HAND TIGHT lol .... at first she might try to pull away, but see if you can tame her just like a cowboy tames a mustang, and her hand will stay..
then, say "lets get out of here and go somewhere"
ps.. You have huge advantage... girls rarely come up to me, if I had the looks of some of these other guys, I would fck EVERY girl I talk to...
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stop walking, grab her hand and say "come with me"Arsinel said:
see if she will follow... keep in mind, after you say it, just walk away and start pulling her after you... i.e. dont ask, just do it...
take her on dance floor and try to get physical.. if this is not a club scene then TALK BACK... this is confusing? what seems to be the problem.. her talking to you means she is INTERESTED, what else do you need???? basically means if you say the right words you will fck her in the near future... case closed..
ps. I always try to ask something random to a girl to see if she is receptive.. i.e. if I am at a bus station I will ask "Do you know how often the bus comes" keep in mind, I take the same bus every day, I just ask for the sake of starting a convo...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Go back to masturbating over Internet porn instead!
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yesBuck Rogers said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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