"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What does this mean, what should I do?!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Grab her hand pull it closer to your body and say "let go of my hand" then pull her in a little more and say "Let go of my hand"... "what are you doing?" "stop that..."Arsinel said:
lol
instead of talking, now your touching and you are able to test the waters...
i.e. see how she responds to physical contact
KEEP IN MIND, while you do this HOLD HER HAND TIGHT lol .... at first she might try to pull away, but see if you can tame her just like a cowboy tames a mustang, and her hand will stay..
then, say "lets get out of here and go somewhere"
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Grab her hand pull it closer to your body and say "let go of my hand" then pull her in a little more and say "Let go of my hand"... "what are you doing?" "stop that..."Arsinel said:
lol
instead of talking, now your touching and you are able to test the waters...
i.e. see how she responds to physical contact
KEEP IN MIND, while you do this HOLD HER HAND TIGHT lol .... at first she might try to pull away, but see if you can tame her just like a cowboy tames a mustang, and her hand will stay..
then, say "lets get out of here and go somewhere"
ps.. You have huge advantage... girls rarely come up to me, if I had the looks of some of these other guys, I would fck EVERY girl I talk to...
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stop walking, grab her hand and say "come with me"Arsinel said:
see if she will follow... keep in mind, after you say it, just walk away and start pulling her after you... i.e. dont ask, just do it...
take her on dance floor and try to get physical.. if this is not a club scene then TALK BACK... this is confusing? what seems to be the problem.. her talking to you means she is INTERESTED, what else do you need???? basically means if you say the right words you will fck her in the near future... case closed..
ps. I always try to ask something random to a girl to see if she is receptive.. i.e. if I am at a bus station I will ask "Do you know how often the bus comes" keep in mind, I take the same bus every day, I just ask for the sake of starting a convo...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Go back to masturbating over Internet porn instead!
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yesBuck Rogers said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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