"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What does she want?

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Alpheta said:
told her to call me. We spoke and so i set up a date for next week sunday and for her to come to my area which is like 3-4 hours away. Told her well talk.

She agreed and well after that call she went ghost. I didnt say nothing neither has she. She has work so i guess theres that.

gna keep texts/calls short and say im busy and to let me know if someting comes up n she cant make it.

Oh pul-leeeease......


100 bucks says she'll flake/cancel.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Igetit! said:
Oh pul-leeeease......


100 bucks says she'll flake/cancel.
I never counted that out. I have a feeling she will but if she does meh i move on. I gave it a final shot.
 

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Never wonder what a girl wants. Focus on her actions, and actions alone.
 

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Alpheta said:
I never counted that out. I have a feeling she will but if she does meh i move on. I gave it a final shot.
Just do yourself a favor and don't initiate any contact between now and then. Also set up a plan B because flake is possible so have something else to do if it happens. People will give you stick but I don't think there is anything wrong with giving it a go.
 

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1.She aske you for two weeks.
2.She fvck the other guy.
3.The other guy pump and dump her.
4."She keeps coming back practically begging"
Her conclusion: the grass was not greener in the other side.

OP move on.
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Yeah op...like seriously nan...you are letting this girl play you man...use my advice instead of going along with her agenda like her little *****....have some pride man...you'll wish you did if you do temporarily get back with her and she vyrbsnu again....

The fact is waiting around for two weeks while she meets other people will do the complete opposite if making her wet...
 

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Infern0 said:
Just do yourself a favor and don't initiate any contact between now and then. Also set up a plan B because flake is possible so have something else to do if it happens. People will give you stick but I don't think there is anything wrong with giving it a go.
Well shes booked the tickjet so im assuming shes deff coming.

But yea i havent initiated anything. She texts but i keep it short.

It does seem like shes getting annoyed that im not texting back as much. Can this possibly decrease interest?

Zinc- you give good advice. I just thought ill give it one last shot.
 
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