"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What does she want?

Igetit!

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Alpheta said:
told her to call me. We spoke and so i set up a date for next week sunday and for her to come to my area which is like 3-4 hours away. Told her well talk.

She agreed and well after that call she went ghost. I didnt say nothing neither has she. She has work so i guess theres that.

gna keep texts/calls short and say im busy and to let me know if someting comes up n she cant make it.

Oh pul-leeeease......


100 bucks says she'll flake/cancel.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alpheta

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Igetit! said:
Oh pul-leeeease......


100 bucks says she'll flake/cancel.
I never counted that out. I have a feeling she will but if she does meh i move on. I gave it a final shot.
 

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Never wonder what a girl wants. Focus on her actions, and actions alone.
 

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Alpheta said:
I never counted that out. I have a feeling she will but if she does meh i move on. I gave it a final shot.
Just do yourself a favor and don't initiate any contact between now and then. Also set up a plan B because flake is possible so have something else to do if it happens. People will give you stick but I don't think there is anything wrong with giving it a go.
 

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1.She aske you for two weeks.
2.She fvck the other guy.
3.The other guy pump and dump her.
4."She keeps coming back practically begging"
Her conclusion: the grass was not greener in the other side.

OP move on.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yeah op...like seriously nan...you are letting this girl play you man...use my advice instead of going along with her agenda like her little *****....have some pride man...you'll wish you did if you do temporarily get back with her and she vyrbsnu again....

The fact is waiting around for two weeks while she meets other people will do the complete opposite if making her wet...
 

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Infern0 said:
Just do yourself a favor and don't initiate any contact between now and then. Also set up a plan B because flake is possible so have something else to do if it happens. People will give you stick but I don't think there is anything wrong with giving it a go.
Well shes booked the tickjet so im assuming shes deff coming.

But yea i havent initiated anything. She texts but i keep it short.

It does seem like shes getting annoyed that im not texting back as much. Can this possibly decrease interest?

Zinc- you give good advice. I just thought ill give it one last shot.
 
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