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Alpheta said:
Oh pul-leeeease......
100 bucks says she'll flake/cancel.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What does she want?
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Oh pul-leeeease......
100 bucks says she'll flake/cancel.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Just do yourself a favor and don't initiate any contact between now and then. Also set up a plan B because flake is possible so have something else to do if it happens. People will give you stick but I don't think there is anything wrong with giving it a go.Alpheta said:
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1.She aske you for two weeks.
2.She fvck the other guy.
3.The other guy pump and dump her.
4."She keeps coming back practically begging"
Her conclusion: the grass was not greener in the other side.
OP move on.
2.She fvck the other guy.
3.The other guy pump and dump her.
4."She keeps coming back practically begging"
Her conclusion: the grass was not greener in the other side.
OP move on.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yeah op...like seriously nan...you are letting this girl play you man...use my advice instead of going along with her agenda like her little *****....have some pride man...you'll wish you did if you do temporarily get back with her and she vyrbsnu again....
The fact is waiting around for two weeks while she meets other people will do the complete opposite if making her wet...
The fact is waiting around for two weeks while she meets other people will do the complete opposite if making her wet...
Well shes booked the tickjet so im assuming shes deff coming.Infern0 said:
But yea i havent initiated anything. She texts but i keep it short.
It does seem like shes getting annoyed that im not texting back as much. Can this possibly decrease interest?
Zinc- you give good advice. I just thought ill give it one last shot.