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Alpheta said:
Oh pul-leeeease......
100 bucks says she'll flake/cancel.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What does she want?
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Oh pul-leeeease......
100 bucks says she'll flake/cancel.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Just do yourself a favor and don't initiate any contact between now and then. Also set up a plan B because flake is possible so have something else to do if it happens. People will give you stick but I don't think there is anything wrong with giving it a go.Alpheta said:
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1.She aske you for two weeks.
2.She fvck the other guy.
3.The other guy pump and dump her.
4."She keeps coming back practically begging"
Her conclusion: the grass was not greener in the other side.
OP move on.
2.She fvck the other guy.
3.The other guy pump and dump her.
4."She keeps coming back practically begging"
Her conclusion: the grass was not greener in the other side.
OP move on.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yeah op...like seriously nan...you are letting this girl play you man...use my advice instead of going along with her agenda like her little *****....have some pride man...you'll wish you did if you do temporarily get back with her and she vyrbsnu again....
The fact is waiting around for two weeks while she meets other people will do the complete opposite if making her wet...
The fact is waiting around for two weeks while she meets other people will do the complete opposite if making her wet...
Well shes booked the tickjet so im assuming shes deff coming.Infern0 said:
But yea i havent initiated anything. She texts but i keep it short.
It does seem like shes getting annoyed that im not texting back as much. Can this possibly decrease interest?
Zinc- you give good advice. I just thought ill give it one last shot.