absolutealex
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When a girl tells you that you're too smooth and you need to do something akward to redeem yourself?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
some info would help.. we've already hooked up numerous times..Originally posted by Centaurion
You tell her to go **** herself and move on to the next chick.
It appears youre only looking for a fix out of this one deal that could be solved by A. telling her to **** off (Centurion) B. Not even thinking about redeeming or making up. C. Make it known that you dont give a **** what she thinks or D. Just do all the above.Originally posted by absolutealex
When a girl tells you that you're too smooth and you need to do something akward to redeem yourself?
what we are telling you alex, is that it is as if someone said:Originally posted by Man Of Adventure
It appears youre only looking for a fix out of this one deal that could be solved by A. telling her to **** off (Centurion) B. Not even thinking about redeeming or making up. C. Make it known that you dont give a **** what she thinks or D. Just do all the above.
Use that head of yours buddy. Youll hear the same answers over and over and over from us. It gets ****in annoying at times...because it just comes to show that there is only so much skill you really need to know when it comes to women and dating...
A. You can tell her to go **** herself. You can tell her that you arent gonna put up with her bull****. Do anything to make her understand that you will not let her continue with that kind of bratty behavior if she doesnt want to wreck her chances with YOU.
B. Are you trying to be considerate to her? This isnt something like I called her the most stupid ****ing ***** ***** **** in the world. There is nothing to apologize about. Youre not trying to be Mr. Nice Guy with ***** Nice Odes. Do not fold when things seem awkward. STICK with your GUNS and DRIVE ON soldier.
C. Youre obviously thinking about the girls thoughts before you act. You need to think a little more inward, more about yourself and the way YOU want to act and the way YOU want to live your life. If shes highly into you, she will stay. Do not deviate damnit.
You deviate now...the power WILL be in HER favor and you will just be another little ***** whipped **********! Nobody wants to be a ***** whipped **********.
D. Do all the above....so you dont put your life in her grubby little hands. Youre probably a really great person.....but great people DONT deserve to be taken advantage of. Your ego is precious. If you let them take control of it you can be broken by their will at any time. At the clinch of a fist, your heart can be crushed as she is crushing some jerks manhood. You can only be sad for so long. Then you have to move on. You HAVE to move on. There is no quick fix. I was that guy. We've been that guy. Never sacrifice yourself.....
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
ok that clears things up, thanksOriginally posted by CHOCOLATE(COLA)
what we are telling you alex, is that it is as if someone said:
"you are too good looking!" ; and u stab yourself in the face.
OR "you are too strong !" ; and you stop eating protein and lifting weights
OR "you are too rich" ; and you start giving away your assets for free
OR "you are too fun" ; and you start doing boring stuff
OR "you are too damn good at school" ; so you stop doing your homework
THESE ARE ALL EXCELLENT ANALOGIES TO HELP YOU UNDERSTAND.
WTF ? ... Sounds like she needs to be put in her place if she's gonna be a b1tch ....Originally posted by blueangel83
Response from a female:
When a girl tells you that you are too smooth, it means that you are too fake. :crackup:
NO SERIOUSLY.
I don't know.. she just says that i know stuff that guys arent suppose to figure out..Originally posted by blueangel83
Response from a female:
When a girl tells you that you are too smooth, it means that you are too fake. :crackup:
NO SERIOUSLY.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She senses the power of the dark side in you.Originally posted by absolutealex
I don't know.. she just says that i know stuff that guys arent suppose to figure out..
LMAO award for the best post in ages.Originally posted by Centaurion
You tell her to go **** herself and move on to the next chick.