"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What does one do?

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When a girl tells you that you're too smooth and you need to do something akward to redeem yourself?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You tell her to go **** herself and move on to the next chick.
 

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Originally posted by Centaurion
You tell her to go **** herself and move on to the next chick.
some info would help.. we've already hooked up numerous times..
 

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Originally posted by absolutealex
When a girl tells you that you're too smooth and you need to do something akward to redeem yourself?
It appears youre only looking for a fix out of this one deal that could be solved by A. telling her to **** off (Centurion) B. Not even thinking about redeeming or making up. C. Make it known that you dont give a **** what she thinks or D. Just do all the above.

Use that head of yours buddy. Youll hear the same answers over and over and over from us. It gets ****in annoying at times...because it just comes to show that there is only so much skill you really need to know when it comes to women and dating...

A. You can tell her to go **** herself. You can tell her that you arent gonna put up with her bull****. Do anything to make her understand that you will not let her continue with that kind of bratty behavior if she doesnt want to wreck her chances with YOU.

B. Are you trying to be considerate to her? This isnt something like I called her the most stupid ****ing ***** ***** **** in the world. There is nothing to apologize about. Youre not trying to be Mr. Nice Guy with ***** Nice Odes. Do not fold when things seem awkward. STICK with your GUNS and DRIVE ON soldier.

C. Youre obviously thinking about the girls thoughts before you act. You need to think a little more inward, more about yourself and the way YOU want to act and the way YOU want to live your life. If shes highly into you, she will stay. Do not deviate damnit.
You deviate now...the power WILL be in HER favor and you will just be another little ***** whipped **********! Nobody wants to be a ***** whipped **********.

D. Do all the above....so you dont put your life in her grubby little hands. Youre probably a really great person.....but great people DONT deserve to be taken advantage of. Your ego is precious. If you let them take control of it you can be broken by their will at any time. At the clinch of a fist, your heart can be crushed as she is crushing some jerks manhood. You can only be sad for so long. Then you have to move on. You HAVE to move on. There is no quick fix. I was that guy. We've been that guy. Never sacrifice yourself.....
 

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Re: Re: What does one do?

Originally posted by Man Of Adventure
It appears youre only looking for a fix out of this one deal that could be solved by A. telling her to **** off (Centurion) B. Not even thinking about redeeming or making up. C. Make it known that you dont give a **** what she thinks or D. Just do all the above.

Use that head of yours buddy. Youll hear the same answers over and over and over from us. It gets ****in annoying at times...because it just comes to show that there is only so much skill you really need to know when it comes to women and dating...

A. You can tell her to go **** herself. You can tell her that you arent gonna put up with her bull****. Do anything to make her understand that you will not let her continue with that kind of bratty behavior if she doesnt want to wreck her chances with YOU.

B. Are you trying to be considerate to her? This isnt something like I called her the most stupid ****ing ***** ***** **** in the world. There is nothing to apologize about. Youre not trying to be Mr. Nice Guy with ***** Nice Odes. Do not fold when things seem awkward. STICK with your GUNS and DRIVE ON soldier.

C. Youre obviously thinking about the girls thoughts before you act. You need to think a little more inward, more about yourself and the way YOU want to act and the way YOU want to live your life. If shes highly into you, she will stay. Do not deviate damnit.
You deviate now...the power WILL be in HER favor and you will just be another little ***** whipped **********! Nobody wants to be a ***** whipped **********.

D. Do all the above....so you dont put your life in her grubby little hands. Youre probably a really great person.....but great people DONT deserve to be taken advantage of. Your ego is precious. If you let them take control of it you can be broken by their will at any time. At the clinch of a fist, your heart can be crushed as she is crushing some jerks manhood. You can only be sad for so long. Then you have to move on. You HAVE to move on. There is no quick fix. I was that guy. We've been that guy. Never sacrifice yourself.....
what we are telling you alex, is that it is as if someone said:
"you are too good looking!" ; and u stab yourself in the face.

OR "you are too strong !" ; and you stop eating protein and lifting weights

OR "you are too rich" ; and you start giving away your assets for free

OR "you are too fun" ; and you start doing boring stuff

OR "you are too damn good at school" ; so you stop doing your homework


THESE ARE ALL EXCELLENT ANALOGIES TO HELP YOU UNDERSTAND.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Re: Re: Re: What does one do?

Originally posted by CHOCOLATE(COLA)
what we are telling you alex, is that it is as if someone said:
"you are too good looking!" ; and u stab yourself in the face.

OR "you are too strong !" ; and you stop eating protein and lifting weights

OR "you are too rich" ; and you start giving away your assets for free

OR "you are too fun" ; and you start doing boring stuff

OR "you are too damn good at school" ; so you stop doing your homework


THESE ARE ALL EXCELLENT ANALOGIES TO HELP YOU UNDERSTAND.
ok that clears things up, thanks
 

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Originally posted by blueangel83
Response from a female:

When a girl tells you that you are too smooth, it means that you are too fake. :crackup:

NO SERIOUSLY.
WTF ? ... Sounds like she needs to be put in her place if she's gonna be a b1tch ....
 

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Originally posted by blueangel83
Response from a female:

When a girl tells you that you are too smooth, it means that you are too fake. :crackup:

NO SERIOUSLY.
I don't know.. she just says that i know stuff that guys arent suppose to figure out..
 

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With respect to the smoothness, I've usually gotten the "there's something about you that I'm not sure about".
I've also gotten the "are you married?" query. I usually play it down.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by absolutealex
I don't know.. she just says that i know stuff that guys arent suppose to figure out..
She senses the power of the dark side in you. :D Maybe you've just been to open with your game. Like doing *everything* "right" or the likes.
 

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HAHAHAHHAHA this makes me laugh.. i told her i'd have non of it and let's just say alex +1
 

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Originally posted by Centaurion
You tell her to go **** herself and move on to the next chick.
LMAO award for the best post in ages.
so True yet so funny
 
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