absolutealex
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When a girl tells you that you're too smooth and you need to do something akward to redeem yourself?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
some info would help.. we've already hooked up numerous times..Originally posted by Centaurion
You tell her to go **** herself and move on to the next chick.
It appears youre only looking for a fix out of this one deal that could be solved by A. telling her to **** off (Centurion) B. Not even thinking about redeeming or making up. C. Make it known that you dont give a **** what she thinks or D. Just do all the above.Originally posted by absolutealex
When a girl tells you that you're too smooth and you need to do something akward to redeem yourself?
what we are telling you alex, is that it is as if someone said:Originally posted by Man Of Adventure
It appears youre only looking for a fix out of this one deal that could be solved by A. telling her to **** off (Centurion) B. Not even thinking about redeeming or making up. C. Make it known that you dont give a **** what she thinks or D. Just do all the above.
Use that head of yours buddy. Youll hear the same answers over and over and over from us. It gets ****in annoying at times...because it just comes to show that there is only so much skill you really need to know when it comes to women and dating...
A. You can tell her to go **** herself. You can tell her that you arent gonna put up with her bull****. Do anything to make her understand that you will not let her continue with that kind of bratty behavior if she doesnt want to wreck her chances with YOU.
B. Are you trying to be considerate to her? This isnt something like I called her the most stupid ****ing ***** ***** **** in the world. There is nothing to apologize about. Youre not trying to be Mr. Nice Guy with ***** Nice Odes. Do not fold when things seem awkward. STICK with your GUNS and DRIVE ON soldier.
C. Youre obviously thinking about the girls thoughts before you act. You need to think a little more inward, more about yourself and the way YOU want to act and the way YOU want to live your life. If shes highly into you, she will stay. Do not deviate damnit.
You deviate now...the power WILL be in HER favor and you will just be another little ***** whipped **********! Nobody wants to be a ***** whipped **********.
D. Do all the above....so you dont put your life in her grubby little hands. Youre probably a really great person.....but great people DONT deserve to be taken advantage of. Your ego is precious. If you let them take control of it you can be broken by their will at any time. At the clinch of a fist, your heart can be crushed as she is crushing some jerks manhood. You can only be sad for so long. Then you have to move on. You HAVE to move on. There is no quick fix. I was that guy. We've been that guy. Never sacrifice yourself.....
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ok that clears things up, thanksOriginally posted by CHOCOLATE(COLA)
what we are telling you alex, is that it is as if someone said:
"you are too good looking!" ; and u stab yourself in the face.
OR "you are too strong !" ; and you stop eating protein and lifting weights
OR "you are too rich" ; and you start giving away your assets for free
OR "you are too fun" ; and you start doing boring stuff
OR "you are too damn good at school" ; so you stop doing your homework
THESE ARE ALL EXCELLENT ANALOGIES TO HELP YOU UNDERSTAND.
WTF ? ... Sounds like she needs to be put in her place if she's gonna be a b1tch ....Originally posted by blueangel83
Response from a female:
When a girl tells you that you are too smooth, it means that you are too fake. :crackup:
NO SERIOUSLY.
I don't know.. she just says that i know stuff that guys arent suppose to figure out..Originally posted by blueangel83
Response from a female:
When a girl tells you that you are too smooth, it means that you are too fake. :crackup:
NO SERIOUSLY.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She senses the power of the dark side in you.Originally posted by absolutealex
I don't know.. she just says that i know stuff that guys arent suppose to figure out..
LMAO award for the best post in ages.Originally posted by Centaurion
You tell her to go **** herself and move on to the next chick.