absolutealex
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When a girl tells you that you're too smooth and you need to do something akward to redeem yourself?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
some info would help.. we've already hooked up numerous times..Originally posted by Centaurion
You tell her to go **** herself and move on to the next chick.
It appears youre only looking for a fix out of this one deal that could be solved by A. telling her to **** off (Centurion) B. Not even thinking about redeeming or making up. C. Make it known that you dont give a **** what she thinks or D. Just do all the above.Originally posted by absolutealex
When a girl tells you that you're too smooth and you need to do something akward to redeem yourself?
what we are telling you alex, is that it is as if someone said:Originally posted by Man Of Adventure
It appears youre only looking for a fix out of this one deal that could be solved by A. telling her to **** off (Centurion) B. Not even thinking about redeeming or making up. C. Make it known that you dont give a **** what she thinks or D. Just do all the above.
Use that head of yours buddy. Youll hear the same answers over and over and over from us. It gets ****in annoying at times...because it just comes to show that there is only so much skill you really need to know when it comes to women and dating...
A. You can tell her to go **** herself. You can tell her that you arent gonna put up with her bull****. Do anything to make her understand that you will not let her continue with that kind of bratty behavior if she doesnt want to wreck her chances with YOU.
B. Are you trying to be considerate to her? This isnt something like I called her the most stupid ****ing ***** ***** **** in the world. There is nothing to apologize about. Youre not trying to be Mr. Nice Guy with ***** Nice Odes. Do not fold when things seem awkward. STICK with your GUNS and DRIVE ON soldier.
C. Youre obviously thinking about the girls thoughts before you act. You need to think a little more inward, more about yourself and the way YOU want to act and the way YOU want to live your life. If shes highly into you, she will stay. Do not deviate damnit.
You deviate now...the power WILL be in HER favor and you will just be another little ***** whipped **********! Nobody wants to be a ***** whipped **********.
D. Do all the above....so you dont put your life in her grubby little hands. Youre probably a really great person.....but great people DONT deserve to be taken advantage of. Your ego is precious. If you let them take control of it you can be broken by their will at any time. At the clinch of a fist, your heart can be crushed as she is crushing some jerks manhood. You can only be sad for so long. Then you have to move on. You HAVE to move on. There is no quick fix. I was that guy. We've been that guy. Never sacrifice yourself.....
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ok that clears things up, thanksOriginally posted by CHOCOLATE(COLA)
what we are telling you alex, is that it is as if someone said:
"you are too good looking!" ; and u stab yourself in the face.
OR "you are too strong !" ; and you stop eating protein and lifting weights
OR "you are too rich" ; and you start giving away your assets for free
OR "you are too fun" ; and you start doing boring stuff
OR "you are too damn good at school" ; so you stop doing your homework
THESE ARE ALL EXCELLENT ANALOGIES TO HELP YOU UNDERSTAND.
WTF ? ... Sounds like she needs to be put in her place if she's gonna be a b1tch ....Originally posted by blueangel83
Response from a female:
When a girl tells you that you are too smooth, it means that you are too fake. :crackup:
NO SERIOUSLY.
I don't know.. she just says that i know stuff that guys arent suppose to figure out..Originally posted by blueangel83
Response from a female:
When a girl tells you that you are too smooth, it means that you are too fake. :crackup:
NO SERIOUSLY.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She senses the power of the dark side in you.Originally posted by absolutealex
I don't know.. she just says that i know stuff that guys arent suppose to figure out..
LMAO award for the best post in ages.Originally posted by Centaurion
You tell her to go **** herself and move on to the next chick.