"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What does it say about you when you cannot attract quality women?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Hey bro welcome to the forums. It can mean many things.DemFeeelz said:
It can mean you're lazy, put no effort into pulling and go for the easy option.
It can mean you have low self esteem, maybe that you're attracting people who reflect what you feel about you.
It can mean you've had issues from childhood, co-dependency, abuse, family members with certain illnesses that you seek out later in life.
It can also bring into question the definition of a quality woman. That definition is subjective in itself.
It usually means you're an AFC with a lot of work ahead of you. It's not society's fault, if you have an issue it's always best to focus the work and effort onto you, self-examination is always the way. You can only control you, you can only change you. I think it was Nelson Mandela who said "Be the change that you want to see in the world".
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Not to take away your passive aggressive way of shaming inept chodes under account number 300, but lets not forget yougogrrrrl-ism and the Western obesity epidemic has drastically altered the dating landscape and basically culled a good 80-ish? (We all know it's more, but I'm being generous for the sake of arguments) percent of the female population as viable options in regards to quality.DemFeeelz said:
Even if every man all of a sudden became a uber alfa who would rather slit his wrists than ever say a negative word about Western women like you pretend to be, the numbers just aren't there to reciprocate. The math just literally wouldn't add up.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
1) Sex tourisim.
2) Continue to chase BPD, AWing, Alcoholic slutts till they are drunk enough to see the quality in you.
3) Finally come out of the closet.
4) MGTOW.
5) Read Zarky's blog: http://matingmarket.wordpress.com/DemFeeelz said:
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Mad? I've got her flipping out in under 3 posts before. I'll let the "Yall hate da wimminz !!! :box: " naturally evolve this time.jimmy18 said:
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Whilst I agree the Kenyan commies ineptitude has been off the chain, I think our social/cultural re-engineering goes a bit deeper than some sh!tlib experiment who may or may not have a penchant for sucking ****s in Chicago bathhouses.jurry said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yea I dont really do partisan politics, suffice it to say almost no one in congress or the white house has any interest in the welfare of the everyday US citizen. Check out MMT and moslereconomics.com, contrary to what youve said our levels of debt are actually too low for the economys need right now.( . )( . ) said:
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jurry said:
A rather odd thing for a lib to say considering the last 5 decades has been run on a feeeelz based strategy. They didn't exactly capture the majority of women's/assorted parasites vote with logic did they?
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And there it is. "You won't get the puzzy/MRA,MGTOW,PUA's baaaaad" 4 posts but we got there.DemFeeelz said:
*Takes a bow*
Im not really interested in the social aspect of politics, the emotional side as you put it - although sadly this is what most people vote on, abortion, gays, guns, other idiotic wedge issues, etc.. I think we are all grown ups and can make our own choices.( . )( . ) said:
What I am interested in is the economic side of it, which has had serious, shameful consequences on our country. This is the part almost no one has ang clue about, and that needs to change.
Smart indian guys generally don't pull tons of HBs. It's reserved for jacked white guys and black guys.
If you don't believe me, go to South Beach this weekend.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Let me know when you figure out WHY you disagree, if you have gone that far yetPairPlusRoyalFlush said:
There is nothing vulgar about it, no -ism's. It is simple accounting. Public sector deficit = private sector surplus. Seriously check the links if you get some time, have learned and studied this kinda stuff for many years.