"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What does it say about you when you cannot attract quality women?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Hey bro welcome to the forums. It can mean many things.DemFeeelz said:
It can mean you're lazy, put no effort into pulling and go for the easy option.
It can mean you have low self esteem, maybe that you're attracting people who reflect what you feel about you.
It can mean you've had issues from childhood, co-dependency, abuse, family members with certain illnesses that you seek out later in life.
It can also bring into question the definition of a quality woman. That definition is subjective in itself.
It usually means you're an AFC with a lot of work ahead of you. It's not society's fault, if you have an issue it's always best to focus the work and effort onto you, self-examination is always the way. You can only control you, you can only change you. I think it was Nelson Mandela who said "Be the change that you want to see in the world".
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Not to take away your passive aggressive way of shaming inept chodes under account number 300, but lets not forget yougogrrrrl-ism and the Western obesity epidemic has drastically altered the dating landscape and basically culled a good 80-ish? (We all know it's more, but I'm being generous for the sake of arguments) percent of the female population as viable options in regards to quality.DemFeeelz said:
Even if every man all of a sudden became a uber alfa who would rather slit his wrists than ever say a negative word about Western women like you pretend to be, the numbers just aren't there to reciprocate. The math just literally wouldn't add up.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
1) Sex tourisim.
2) Continue to chase BPD, AWing, Alcoholic slutts till they are drunk enough to see the quality in you.
3) Finally come out of the closet.
4) MGTOW.
5) Read Zarky's blog: http://matingmarket.wordpress.com/DemFeeelz said:
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Mad? I've got her flipping out in under 3 posts before. I'll let the "Yall hate da wimminz !!! :box: " naturally evolve this time.jimmy18 said:
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Whilst I agree the Kenyan commies ineptitude has been off the chain, I think our social/cultural re-engineering goes a bit deeper than some sh!tlib experiment who may or may not have a penchant for sucking ****s in Chicago bathhouses.jurry said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yea I dont really do partisan politics, suffice it to say almost no one in congress or the white house has any interest in the welfare of the everyday US citizen. Check out MMT and moslereconomics.com, contrary to what youve said our levels of debt are actually too low for the economys need right now.( . )( . ) said:
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jurry said:
A rather odd thing for a lib to say considering the last 5 decades has been run on a feeeelz based strategy. They didn't exactly capture the majority of women's/assorted parasites vote with logic did they?
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And there it is. "You won't get the puzzy/MRA,MGTOW,PUA's baaaaad" 4 posts but we got there.DemFeeelz said:
*Takes a bow*
Im not really interested in the social aspect of politics, the emotional side as you put it - although sadly this is what most people vote on, abortion, gays, guns, other idiotic wedge issues, etc.. I think we are all grown ups and can make our own choices.( . )( . ) said:
What I am interested in is the economic side of it, which has had serious, shameful consequences on our country. This is the part almost no one has ang clue about, and that needs to change.
Smart indian guys generally don't pull tons of HBs. It's reserved for jacked white guys and black guys.
If you don't believe me, go to South Beach this weekend.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Let me know when you figure out WHY you disagree, if you have gone that far yetPairPlusRoyalFlush said:
There is nothing vulgar about it, no -ism's. It is simple accounting. Public sector deficit = private sector surplus. Seriously check the links if you get some time, have learned and studied this kinda stuff for many years.