"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What does it mean when she cries during sex?
- Thread starter El Payaso
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
Thinks of her ex she still wants instead of you and cries that she lost him.
Serious emotional issues from a terrible event related to sex in the past.
That's my guess. Take your pick.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Oh yeah, and make sure that you're in the right hole too. Unless she wants it elsewhere of course....
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Roober
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My current plate gets this little giggle and just let's completely loose when she climaxes, the giggles and body jerking is probably my favorite reaction. That is the usual reaction I get, which I would think is ideal
El Payaso
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Could you elaborate on both?
wifehunter
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SmooveMooves
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hockeyfreak79
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I think that's the only time I've experienced this.
Desdinova
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My first fiancee would sometimes cry during sex. She didn't like sex, at least not with me. She generally wouldn't tell me if it hurt, or she just couldn't stand being fvcked by me, although I had her tell me a few times that it hurt. It also could have been both. Mind you, I was an AFC at this time. She was also sexually abused as a child.
I've had other women cry because they're feeling extremely in love with me. They'd exclaim things like "I love you sooo much". They would also hold me and kiss me after we we're done while they're bawling their eyes out.
backseatjuan
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
She might not like being "invaded". So you could be "small" and by her knowing she took it on lets her feel violated.
backseatjuan
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Cuz those are women, we afraid of them! As long as they fvck it's cool, no matter what we have to sacrifice for it. So why ask bold questions??????????????????????????????
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.