"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What does it mean when she cries during sex?

El Payaso

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She randomly breaks out into tears during sex and won't tell you why.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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AttackFormation

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Cheating and feeling guilty.
Thinks of her ex she still wants instead of you and cries that she lost him.
Serious emotional issues from a terrible event related to sex in the past.

That's my guess. Take your pick.
 

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On a side note, I know some chicks who start crying when they feel such a strong sense of love for you. It weirds me out a little bit personally, but I know it happens. It's basically the same way people cry when they're so happy, except in this case it is infatuation and 'love' and she has you there inside her so she feels overwhelmed with good emotions she can't handle it. It could be a good thing that a girl cries sometimes. I don't think any chick ever wants to admit to a guy how much they love him though, because they think that might weird the guy out and she can lose him.

Oh yeah, and make sure that you're in the right hole too. Unless she wants it elsewhere of course....
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I've have a wide range of reactions from a won a completely passing out to crying. Crying usually isn't a good thing.

My current plate gets this little giggle and just let's completely loose when she climaxes, the giggles and body jerking is probably my favorite reaction. That is the usual reaction I get, which I would think is ideal
 

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It means she's having emotions that you don't know about and she didn't feel safe telling you. Could be good, could be bad. Thing is, she's afraid to open up. Why?
 

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She's either having an overflow of positive emotions, or an overflow of negative emotions. I've experienced both.
Could you elaborate on both?
 

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Is too big??:p
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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For me, negative crying would be a major vibe killer. Crying is not a turn on. I would refrain from having sex with her until she explained to me why the fūck she was crying. Now that I think if it. That in combination with her refusal to explain would piss me off. But that's me.
 

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This is how I lost my virginity. Instant boner killer man! It was her own fault too she didn't want me to use a rubber. I was a rookie, I didn't know you have to get it really wet! Smh

I think that's the only time I've experienced this.
 

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She cries because she wants you but knows she can't be with you since she has someone else. Usually means she's cheating and feeling guilty. Once you make a girl *** she has an emotional attachment to you. If she is also banging someone else then she is conflicted. She wants both of you but know she can't so she cries. It usually means she will pick the other guy over you
 

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Could you elaborate on both?
My first fiancee would sometimes cry during sex. She didn't like sex, at least not with me. She generally wouldn't tell me if it hurt, or she just couldn't stand being fvcked by me, although I had her tell me a few times that it hurt. It also could have been both. Mind you, I was an AFC at this time. She was also sexually abused as a child.

I've had other women cry because they're feeling extremely in love with me. They'd exclaim things like "I love you sooo much". They would also hold me and kiss me after we we're done while they're bawling their eyes out.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you have a 7+ fat **** that means it hurts physically, if you have a thin one 5 inches and less that means it hurts emotionally.
She might not like being "invaded". So you could be "small" and by her knowing she took it on lets her feel violated.
 

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Damn you must really be stretching that sh!t open...lmao
 

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We can assume assume assume, but we will never know for sure. Try asking her what was up. IDK why you guys are so afraid to communicate.
 

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We can assume assume assume, but we will never know for sure. Try asking her what was up. IDK why you guys are so afraid to communicate.

Cuz those are women, we afraid of them! As long as they fvck it's cool, no matter what we have to sacrifice for it. So why ask bold questions??????????????????????????????
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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