Poonstra
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When she asks this it is already to late.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What does it mean to invite her 2 times to your place and nothing happens!
- Thread starter alexander89
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
MountainSlide
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You could just tell her that you’re not looking for friends, but you’re interested in going on more dates and seeing where things go (hopefully to the bedroom). Then if she rejects it. You can just say that if she changes her mind to let you know. Then just move on.
DEEZEDBRAH
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I don't ignore women. The exchange of time is for sexy times or next. No exception.
Too busy getting more baeeeees. Ignoring her is a by product.
alexander89
Don Juan
I was waiting for your replay!
I'm hopeless )))
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
OP I've done this once hoping that by being "friends" with her (aka waiting around) she would eventually come around to want to hook up with me. It was a waste of time and energy and in the end I felt like an idiot when I showed up to her housewarming party and her new boyfriend was there. Spare yourself this type of BS.