Poonstra
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When she asks this it is already to late.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What does it mean to invite her 2 times to your place and nothing happens!
- Thread starter alexander89
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
MountainSlide
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You could just tell her that you’re not looking for friends, but you’re interested in going on more dates and seeing where things go (hopefully to the bedroom). Then if she rejects it. You can just say that if she changes her mind to let you know. Then just move on.
DEEZEDBRAH
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I don't ignore women. The exchange of time is for sexy times or next. No exception.
Too busy getting more baeeeees. Ignoring her is a by product.
alexander89
Don Juan
I was waiting for your replay!
I'm hopeless )))
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
OP I've done this once hoping that by being "friends" with her (aka waiting around) she would eventually come around to want to hook up with me. It was a waste of time and energy and in the end I felt like an idiot when I showed up to her housewarming party and her new boyfriend was there. Spare yourself this type of BS.