You have no,or it feels like you just have no game at all. I mean none,no approaching,no being in state,all the tactics,tips,etc. Maybe it's lazyness,or anxiety,or not being my best self. This is drving me nuts. I haven't had any action in a very long time. And I keep living the same thing over and over. Is it possible to just not have the mojo? Or what if it's something else?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What does it mean if...
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
WC2
Master Don Juan
Out of all the guys I run into who have trouble getting women, only 1 out of 10 lack in the skill department. 9 of these guys could definitely talk up a woman no problem. 9 of these guys are definitely good looking guys.
They don't have game not because they have no skill, but because they are lazy and afraid. And it's funny because the first time these guys are successful in gaming a woman, they never turn back. It's that one giant step that you have to make in the beginning that counts for it all. It seems large now, but looking back it's really not big at all by your current standards.
For those other 1 out of 10, well let's just say some are born not quite so lucky. These include people with speech impediments, horrible physical features, or just an unhealthy/boring lifestyle. Let's just be glad that god was merciful on most of us..
They don't have game not because they have no skill, but because they are lazy and afraid. And it's funny because the first time these guys are successful in gaming a woman, they never turn back. It's that one giant step that you have to make in the beginning that counts for it all. It seems large now, but looking back it's really not big at all by your current standards.
For those other 1 out of 10, well let's just say some are born not quite so lucky. These include people with speech impediments, horrible physical features, or just an unhealthy/boring lifestyle. Let's just be glad that god was merciful on most of us..
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
DonGorgon
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Its disconnection.. you dont have enough casual interactions with women so you are becoming alien to them...
Possibly recovering from the symptoms of one-itis?
I remember my first case of one-itis which was the last one I recovered from, didn't feel like gaming any girl, just felt like I was in a constant state of depression when reality kicked in.
This site, and other forms and sources of reading help me kick the bucket on my former AFC ways.
Its good to be free.
I remember my first case of one-itis which was the last one I recovered from, didn't feel like gaming any girl, just felt like I was in a constant state of depression when reality kicked in.
This site, and other forms and sources of reading help me kick the bucket on my former AFC ways.
Its good to be free.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
ION,
you seem to have deep rooted self limiting beliefs.
These are holding you back.
you seem to have deep rooted self limiting beliefs.
These are holding you back.
Kaim Argonar
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not to be insulting boy, but haven't you made the same thread with small variations like 60 times by now in the space of two or three months? what's the point of that
ready123
Master Don Juan
you have no game because you choose to stay on the computer and act pathetic instead of going out and experiencing life
break the cycle already
break the cycle already
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.