"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ItsOnNow

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You have no,or it feels like you just have no game at all. I mean none,no approaching,no being in state,all the tactics,tips,etc. Maybe it's lazyness,or anxiety,or not being my best self. This is drving me nuts. I haven't had any action in a very long time. And I keep living the same thing over and over. Is it possible to just not have the mojo? Or what if it's something else?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ATG

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join a gym, exercise and build your motivation back up, ride a bike somewhere.
read: "the mack within"
 

Mavrick

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It's fear. You're full of it. Overcome your fear by doing that which you are scared of. No one wants to be with someone who has a fear of them (fear of rejection, fear of losing them, any fear...).

Overcome and grow!
 

WC2

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Out of all the guys I run into who have trouble getting women, only 1 out of 10 lack in the skill department. 9 of these guys could definitely talk up a woman no problem. 9 of these guys are definitely good looking guys.

They don't have game not because they have no skill, but because they are lazy and afraid. And it's funny because the first time these guys are successful in gaming a woman, they never turn back. It's that one giant step that you have to make in the beginning that counts for it all. It seems large now, but looking back it's really not big at all by your current standards.

For those other 1 out of 10, well let's just say some are born not quite so lucky. These include people with speech impediments, horrible physical features, or just an unhealthy/boring lifestyle. Let's just be glad that god was merciful on most of us..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Possibly recovering from the symptoms of one-itis?



I remember my first case of one-itis which was the last one I recovered from, didn't feel like gaming any girl, just felt like I was in a constant state of depression when reality kicked in.


This site, and other forms and sources of reading help me kick the bucket on my former AFC ways.

Its good to be free.
 

Interceptor

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ION,
you seem to have deep rooted self limiting beliefs.
These are holding you back.
 

Kaim Argonar

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not to be insulting boy, but haven't you made the same thread with small variations like 60 times by now in the space of two or three months? what's the point of that
 

ready123

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you have no game because you choose to stay on the computer and act pathetic instead of going out and experiencing life

break the cycle already
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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