You have no,or it feels like you just have no game at all. I mean none,no approaching,no being in state,all the tactics,tips,etc. Maybe it's lazyness,or anxiety,or not being my best self. This is drving me nuts. I haven't had any action in a very long time. And I keep living the same thing over and over. Is it possible to just not have the mojo? Or what if it's something else?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
What does it mean if...
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
WC2
Master Don Juan
Out of all the guys I run into who have trouble getting women, only 1 out of 10 lack in the skill department. 9 of these guys could definitely talk up a woman no problem. 9 of these guys are definitely good looking guys.
They don't have game not because they have no skill, but because they are lazy and afraid. And it's funny because the first time these guys are successful in gaming a woman, they never turn back. It's that one giant step that you have to make in the beginning that counts for it all. It seems large now, but looking back it's really not big at all by your current standards.
For those other 1 out of 10, well let's just say some are born not quite so lucky. These include people with speech impediments, horrible physical features, or just an unhealthy/boring lifestyle. Let's just be glad that god was merciful on most of us..
They don't have game not because they have no skill, but because they are lazy and afraid. And it's funny because the first time these guys are successful in gaming a woman, they never turn back. It's that one giant step that you have to make in the beginning that counts for it all. It seems large now, but looking back it's really not big at all by your current standards.
For those other 1 out of 10, well let's just say some are born not quite so lucky. These include people with speech impediments, horrible physical features, or just an unhealthy/boring lifestyle. Let's just be glad that god was merciful on most of us..
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DonGorgon
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Its disconnection.. you dont have enough casual interactions with women so you are becoming alien to them...
Possibly recovering from the symptoms of one-itis?
I remember my first case of one-itis which was the last one I recovered from, didn't feel like gaming any girl, just felt like I was in a constant state of depression when reality kicked in.
This site, and other forms and sources of reading help me kick the bucket on my former AFC ways.
Its good to be free.
I remember my first case of one-itis which was the last one I recovered from, didn't feel like gaming any girl, just felt like I was in a constant state of depression when reality kicked in.
This site, and other forms and sources of reading help me kick the bucket on my former AFC ways.
Its good to be free.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
ION,
you seem to have deep rooted self limiting beliefs.
These are holding you back.
you seem to have deep rooted self limiting beliefs.
These are holding you back.
Kaim Argonar
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not to be insulting boy, but haven't you made the same thread with small variations like 60 times by now in the space of two or three months? what's the point of that
ready123
Master Don Juan
you have no game because you choose to stay on the computer and act pathetic instead of going out and experiencing life
break the cycle already
break the cycle already
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.