You have no,or it feels like you just have no game at all. I mean none,no approaching,no being in state,all the tactics,tips,etc. Maybe it's lazyness,or anxiety,or not being my best self. This is drving me nuts. I haven't had any action in a very long time. And I keep living the same thing over and over. Is it possible to just not have the mojo? Or what if it's something else?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What does it mean if...
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
WC2
Master Don Juan
Out of all the guys I run into who have trouble getting women, only 1 out of 10 lack in the skill department. 9 of these guys could definitely talk up a woman no problem. 9 of these guys are definitely good looking guys.
They don't have game not because they have no skill, but because they are lazy and afraid. And it's funny because the first time these guys are successful in gaming a woman, they never turn back. It's that one giant step that you have to make in the beginning that counts for it all. It seems large now, but looking back it's really not big at all by your current standards.
For those other 1 out of 10, well let's just say some are born not quite so lucky. These include people with speech impediments, horrible physical features, or just an unhealthy/boring lifestyle. Let's just be glad that god was merciful on most of us..
They don't have game not because they have no skill, but because they are lazy and afraid. And it's funny because the first time these guys are successful in gaming a woman, they never turn back. It's that one giant step that you have to make in the beginning that counts for it all. It seems large now, but looking back it's really not big at all by your current standards.
For those other 1 out of 10, well let's just say some are born not quite so lucky. These include people with speech impediments, horrible physical features, or just an unhealthy/boring lifestyle. Let's just be glad that god was merciful on most of us..
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DonGorgon
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Its disconnection.. you dont have enough casual interactions with women so you are becoming alien to them...
Possibly recovering from the symptoms of one-itis?
I remember my first case of one-itis which was the last one I recovered from, didn't feel like gaming any girl, just felt like I was in a constant state of depression when reality kicked in.
This site, and other forms and sources of reading help me kick the bucket on my former AFC ways.
Its good to be free.
I remember my first case of one-itis which was the last one I recovered from, didn't feel like gaming any girl, just felt like I was in a constant state of depression when reality kicked in.
This site, and other forms and sources of reading help me kick the bucket on my former AFC ways.
Its good to be free.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
ION,
you seem to have deep rooted self limiting beliefs.
These are holding you back.
you seem to have deep rooted self limiting beliefs.
These are holding you back.
Kaim Argonar
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not to be insulting boy, but haven't you made the same thread with small variations like 60 times by now in the space of two or three months? what's the point of that
ready123
Master Don Juan
you have no game because you choose to stay on the computer and act pathetic instead of going out and experiencing life
break the cycle already
break the cycle already
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.