"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BxPrince24

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This girl at my school really likes me and I've became attracted to her. Thing is that my friend really likes her, he even proposed to her in the classroom in front of everyone ( I wasn't there, the teacher told me about it. Me & her are cool like that.) I don't know what she said, but I think that she doesn't feel the same way she feels about me with him. She doesn't provoke him or anything and she's always showing up around me, like today i must have seen her at least 8 times and she called me everytime she saw me. She plays like she doesn't like me but her actions speak otherwise, and i play like i don't like her either. But yea, so the way I'm thinking right now is, I've never had a gf, my friend has had plenty, he's had sex, I haven't. Why should I let him get the girl? Do you guys agree with my views on this? I know that if I get with her, he's gonna hate the living hell outta me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mr. Debonaire

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don't let him get the girl

live for YOURSELF!

if she's single and neither of you have dated her before she's fair game

plus if he gets pissed you can point out that he's gotten alot more then you (at the risk of sounding a little pathetic)
 

bob88

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ok...

if u really really like her then u should just go for her

if ur really tight with your friend then theres many other girls u guys can go for....
 

AIR-PILOT

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Isn't this an option...
Letting the friend know??
I guess it all depends on how close you are..
I have been in the same situation, no problem in letting him know how you feel. If he is a good friend he will understand, if not, oh well...go for it.
 

BxPrince24

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Thing is that even though we're friends he's tries to be in a competition with me every now and then. He thinks that I have no chance with her because according to him I'm not as good as he is yet. Little does he know. but I just might let him know what's up with it. And I'm gonna ask her if she's feeling anything for him.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm no expert, but I'm thinking that you will come off as needy if you start asking her if she likes your friend. That's probably not the way you want to go with this. Just play it cool and don't tell her how you feel or anything like that because then she'll think you're a pvssy and lose interest.
 

BxPrince24

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I was just thinking about that. I'll only mention it to my friend since it would affect him.
 

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BE A MAN!

do you remember the freashmen years? not getting the girl? well here is your chance. Its dog eat dog world and you have to jump in the middle of this if you like her and dont want to be the one every one steps on, other wise... theres always internet dating?
:cool:
 
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