"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ridiculous_Rick

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Alright here's the situation. I've been employed with this company for about 8 months. While working there I've became "friends" with one of my co-workers. I've known here for about 2 and a half months now and she's cool. We sit next to each other everyday that we work and we have good conversation. Sometimes she'll blatently lean over to see what I'm reading and rub here formarms on me ect... I'm diggin' her but she's got a boyfriend.(rolls eyes) But the crazy thing is, is she sends hella mixed signals. Like the other day I was lookin' at her and noticed her thong stickin' out and the horny bastard I am I sat there and stared wondering what I'd be like to take those panties off. So, she looks at me catching me read handed I'm like whatever. I asked her what was on em, and she checked. I dunno I've made my intentions clear that I want to get with her but, I'm just not sure how to approach the situation. She says she wants to chill but I have no car so I'm working on that. I wrote her a sixteen bar verse the other day but I'm not really sure if I wanna give to her cause it maybe to forward. Mixed signals are a *****. What do you think about my situation?


:confused: Rick
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Pimp-sicle

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Ok your first mistake was "making your intentions known." You NEVER EVER EVER, let a girl know you want her before you know if she wants you!! Why? Cuz it gives her your ballz in the palm of her hand. She has a bf, but she still loves attention from guys, and your the guy that gives her that attention. Girls SAY a lot of things, but judge her more by what she DOES rather than by what she says. If she says she wants to "chill" but always seems unavailable then you know she's just teasing you. And DEFINITELY DO NOT give her a sappy 16 bar verse you wrote for her.


Sounds like your in the early stages of having One-itis!!! So what do you do?

Well be specific and ask her to hangout. If she agrees then see where it goes. If not, then move on.


BTW its ALWAYS a mistake to date a co-worker.


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Porky

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It's always a mistake to date the co-worker.

It's never a mistake to fvck the boss =)
 

Ridiculous_Rick

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just a quick question what's One-itits? Not familar with the term. And this girls been down to hang out many times. It's just I don't have a ride so.... I have no way to go get her, and all my hommies are procrastinatin' bastards who ain't go no cars either. So I need to get a car and everything I'll gravy. Thanks for all the feedback to everyone who repiled to my question.


Ridiculous.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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