da Wigdor
Don Juan
Also, shes never dated anyone and shes only 14.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What do you think?
- Thread starter da Wigdor
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
It seems to me like you're obsessing over this girl.
If you really want to get with this specific chick, get with other girls. Flirt with other girls, talk to other girls. Act as if this girl is some girl you JUST met. Never bring up that letter again. Never. She'll see that other girls are into you, and thats all you need to get your foot in the door.
If you really want to get with this specific chick, get with other girls. Flirt with other girls, talk to other girls. Act as if this girl is some girl you JUST met. Never bring up that letter again. Never. She'll see that other girls are into you, and thats all you need to get your foot in the door.
phatboi408
Senior Don Juan
one-itis
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Correct.
da Wigdor
Don Juan
She might not care if other girls like me, should I talk to her also?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
phatboi408
Senior Don Juan
Just do what we said and you will see yourself transform. But you have to do it to get something out of it.
Read the bible on http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/ download it and print it out double sided and punchhole it and put it in a binder. Read and re-read and keep reading
Read the bible on http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/ download it and print it out double sided and punchhole it and put it in a binder. Read and re-read and keep reading
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
The only love letter will you every need is the following:
Do you like me?
Check one:
(put a box) Yes..........(put another box) Yes
Do you like me?
Check one:
(put a box) Yes..........(put another box) Yes
da Wigdor
Don Juan
When should I start talking to her, normally not about feelings.
Feelings should wait.
Can I try to become friends with her, how?
Feelings should wait.
Can I try to become friends with her, how?
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
When should you stop worrying so much? Answer? Now.
READ THE EFFING BIBLE. Forget about this broad right now. Forget it. Drop it. The ONLY thing you need to concern yourself with right now is improving who you are. You're a man. Start acting like one.
READ THE EFFING BIBLE. Forget about this broad right now. Forget it. Drop it. The ONLY thing you need to concern yourself with right now is improving who you are. You're a man. Start acting like one.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
You're 14 years old fool. You LOVE this girl? You barely know her?
USE YOUR F*CKING HEAD. What did u expect was gonna happen? This girl barely hit puberty, and you're here trying to marry here while she's trying to figure out what to do with that nice booty... feel me?
USE YOUR F*CKING HEAD. What did u expect was gonna happen? This girl barely hit puberty, and you're here trying to marry here while she's trying to figure out what to do with that nice booty... feel me?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
i remember in sophmore year there was this freshman girl who would eat lunch with me and some of her buds and some swim team kids. this kid, really sad case, named carlton. yeah, carlton. he digged the shiit out of him and she would pretend to be apathetic but if it was just me and her talking shed laugh and say yeah he's pathetic.
he wrote her a letter and bought her a card and book. poor kid, but he had a bit of an additude so i dont feel to bad for him. we all were laughing out loud like we were high after he left from dropping it off. funny stuff.
he wrote her a letter and bought her a card and book. poor kid, but he had a bit of an additude so i dont feel to bad for him. we all were laughing out loud like we were high after he left from dropping it off. funny stuff.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
Hahahahahahhahahahahahhahahaha back in the fvckin day!
To wrap up this dumb WBAFC story, it's been 2 years since I stopped talking to this midget b!tch wh0re and now it's clear to me that she got the wrong fvckin horemones when that shrimp hit puberty.
I haven't even looked this girl in the eyes for two years... until today... also shes in my english class so I'll end up talking to her sometime.
we basically just exchanged blank looks today.
Ahhhhhhhhhh damn! Oneitis feels so good after you ditch that b!tch haha.
One thing that still pisses me off though is, she sounds exactly like I used to sound when I was younger. How can I ignore this feeling and get the past out of my head for good?
I walked into class as she was about to leave the room and she was like "woah.." probably cause I'm giant tank-sized compaired to her. What a weirdo haha.
To wrap up this dumb WBAFC story, it's been 2 years since I stopped talking to this midget b!tch wh0re and now it's clear to me that she got the wrong fvckin horemones when that shrimp hit puberty.
I haven't even looked this girl in the eyes for two years... until today... also shes in my english class so I'll end up talking to her sometime.
we basically just exchanged blank looks today.
Ahhhhhhhhhh damn! Oneitis feels so good after you ditch that b!tch haha.
One thing that still pisses me off though is, she sounds exactly like I used to sound when I was younger. How can I ignore this feeling and get the past out of my head for good?
I walked into class as she was about to leave the room and she was like "woah.." probably cause I'm giant tank-sized compaired to her. What a weirdo haha.
duffman360
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dededee ur confusin love with lust dude
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
haha I don't see either, she's cute but has a flat chest and a flat ass. nothing special there. rofl.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.