da Wigdor
Don Juan
Also, shes never dated anyone and shes only 14.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What do you think?
- Thread starter da Wigdor
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
It seems to me like you're obsessing over this girl.
If you really want to get with this specific chick, get with other girls. Flirt with other girls, talk to other girls. Act as if this girl is some girl you JUST met. Never bring up that letter again. Never. She'll see that other girls are into you, and thats all you need to get your foot in the door.
If you really want to get with this specific chick, get with other girls. Flirt with other girls, talk to other girls. Act as if this girl is some girl you JUST met. Never bring up that letter again. Never. She'll see that other girls are into you, and thats all you need to get your foot in the door.
phatboi408
Senior Don Juan
one-itis
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Correct.
da Wigdor
Don Juan
She might not care if other girls like me, should I talk to her also?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
phatboi408
Senior Don Juan
Just do what we said and you will see yourself transform. But you have to do it to get something out of it.
Read the bible on http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/ download it and print it out double sided and punchhole it and put it in a binder. Read and re-read and keep reading
Read the bible on http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/ download it and print it out double sided and punchhole it and put it in a binder. Read and re-read and keep reading
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
The only love letter will you every need is the following:
Do you like me?
Check one:
(put a box) Yes..........(put another box) Yes
Do you like me?
Check one:
(put a box) Yes..........(put another box) Yes
da Wigdor
Don Juan
When should I start talking to her, normally not about feelings.
Feelings should wait.
Can I try to become friends with her, how?
Feelings should wait.
Can I try to become friends with her, how?
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
When should you stop worrying so much? Answer? Now.
READ THE EFFING BIBLE. Forget about this broad right now. Forget it. Drop it. The ONLY thing you need to concern yourself with right now is improving who you are. You're a man. Start acting like one.
READ THE EFFING BIBLE. Forget about this broad right now. Forget it. Drop it. The ONLY thing you need to concern yourself with right now is improving who you are. You're a man. Start acting like one.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
You're 14 years old fool. You LOVE this girl? You barely know her?
USE YOUR F*CKING HEAD. What did u expect was gonna happen? This girl barely hit puberty, and you're here trying to marry here while she's trying to figure out what to do with that nice booty... feel me?
USE YOUR F*CKING HEAD. What did u expect was gonna happen? This girl barely hit puberty, and you're here trying to marry here while she's trying to figure out what to do with that nice booty... feel me?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
i remember in sophmore year there was this freshman girl who would eat lunch with me and some of her buds and some swim team kids. this kid, really sad case, named carlton. yeah, carlton. he digged the shiit out of him and she would pretend to be apathetic but if it was just me and her talking shed laugh and say yeah he's pathetic.
he wrote her a letter and bought her a card and book. poor kid, but he had a bit of an additude so i dont feel to bad for him. we all were laughing out loud like we were high after he left from dropping it off. funny stuff.
he wrote her a letter and bought her a card and book. poor kid, but he had a bit of an additude so i dont feel to bad for him. we all were laughing out loud like we were high after he left from dropping it off. funny stuff.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
Hahahahahahhahahahahahhahahaha back in the fvckin day!
To wrap up this dumb WBAFC story, it's been 2 years since I stopped talking to this midget b!tch wh0re and now it's clear to me that she got the wrong fvckin horemones when that shrimp hit puberty.
I haven't even looked this girl in the eyes for two years... until today... also shes in my english class so I'll end up talking to her sometime.
we basically just exchanged blank looks today.
Ahhhhhhhhhh damn! Oneitis feels so good after you ditch that b!tch haha.
One thing that still pisses me off though is, she sounds exactly like I used to sound when I was younger. How can I ignore this feeling and get the past out of my head for good?
I walked into class as she was about to leave the room and she was like "woah.." probably cause I'm giant tank-sized compaired to her. What a weirdo haha.
To wrap up this dumb WBAFC story, it's been 2 years since I stopped talking to this midget b!tch wh0re and now it's clear to me that she got the wrong fvckin horemones when that shrimp hit puberty.
I haven't even looked this girl in the eyes for two years... until today... also shes in my english class so I'll end up talking to her sometime.
we basically just exchanged blank looks today.
Ahhhhhhhhhh damn! Oneitis feels so good after you ditch that b!tch haha.
One thing that still pisses me off though is, she sounds exactly like I used to sound when I was younger. How can I ignore this feeling and get the past out of my head for good?
I walked into class as she was about to leave the room and she was like "woah.." probably cause I'm giant tank-sized compaired to her. What a weirdo haha.
duffman360
Don Juan
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dededee ur confusin love with lust dude
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
haha I don't see either, she's cute but has a flat chest and a flat ass. nothing special there. rofl.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.