da Wigdor
Don Juan
Also, shes never dated anyone and shes only 14.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What do you think?
- Thread starter da Wigdor
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
It seems to me like you're obsessing over this girl.
If you really want to get with this specific chick, get with other girls. Flirt with other girls, talk to other girls. Act as if this girl is some girl you JUST met. Never bring up that letter again. Never. She'll see that other girls are into you, and thats all you need to get your foot in the door.
If you really want to get with this specific chick, get with other girls. Flirt with other girls, talk to other girls. Act as if this girl is some girl you JUST met. Never bring up that letter again. Never. She'll see that other girls are into you, and thats all you need to get your foot in the door.
phatboi408
Senior Don Juan
one-itis
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Correct.
da Wigdor
Don Juan
She might not care if other girls like me, should I talk to her also?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
phatboi408
Senior Don Juan
Just do what we said and you will see yourself transform. But you have to do it to get something out of it.
Read the bible on http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/ download it and print it out double sided and punchhole it and put it in a binder. Read and re-read and keep reading
Read the bible on http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/ download it and print it out double sided and punchhole it and put it in a binder. Read and re-read and keep reading
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
The only love letter will you every need is the following:
Do you like me?
Check one:
(put a box) Yes..........(put another box) Yes
Do you like me?
Check one:
(put a box) Yes..........(put another box) Yes
da Wigdor
Don Juan
When should I start talking to her, normally not about feelings.
Feelings should wait.
Can I try to become friends with her, how?
Feelings should wait.
Can I try to become friends with her, how?
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
When should you stop worrying so much? Answer? Now.
READ THE EFFING BIBLE. Forget about this broad right now. Forget it. Drop it. The ONLY thing you need to concern yourself with right now is improving who you are. You're a man. Start acting like one.
READ THE EFFING BIBLE. Forget about this broad right now. Forget it. Drop it. The ONLY thing you need to concern yourself with right now is improving who you are. You're a man. Start acting like one.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
You're 14 years old fool. You LOVE this girl? You barely know her?
USE YOUR F*CKING HEAD. What did u expect was gonna happen? This girl barely hit puberty, and you're here trying to marry here while she's trying to figure out what to do with that nice booty... feel me?
USE YOUR F*CKING HEAD. What did u expect was gonna happen? This girl barely hit puberty, and you're here trying to marry here while she's trying to figure out what to do with that nice booty... feel me?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
i remember in sophmore year there was this freshman girl who would eat lunch with me and some of her buds and some swim team kids. this kid, really sad case, named carlton. yeah, carlton. he digged the shiit out of him and she would pretend to be apathetic but if it was just me and her talking shed laugh and say yeah he's pathetic.
he wrote her a letter and bought her a card and book. poor kid, but he had a bit of an additude so i dont feel to bad for him. we all were laughing out loud like we were high after he left from dropping it off. funny stuff.
he wrote her a letter and bought her a card and book. poor kid, but he had a bit of an additude so i dont feel to bad for him. we all were laughing out loud like we were high after he left from dropping it off. funny stuff.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
Hahahahahahhahahahahahhahahaha back in the fvckin day!
To wrap up this dumb WBAFC story, it's been 2 years since I stopped talking to this midget b!tch wh0re and now it's clear to me that she got the wrong fvckin horemones when that shrimp hit puberty.
I haven't even looked this girl in the eyes for two years... until today... also shes in my english class so I'll end up talking to her sometime.
we basically just exchanged blank looks today.
Ahhhhhhhhhh damn! Oneitis feels so good after you ditch that b!tch haha.
One thing that still pisses me off though is, she sounds exactly like I used to sound when I was younger. How can I ignore this feeling and get the past out of my head for good?
I walked into class as she was about to leave the room and she was like "woah.." probably cause I'm giant tank-sized compaired to her. What a weirdo haha.
To wrap up this dumb WBAFC story, it's been 2 years since I stopped talking to this midget b!tch wh0re and now it's clear to me that she got the wrong fvckin horemones when that shrimp hit puberty.
I haven't even looked this girl in the eyes for two years... until today... also shes in my english class so I'll end up talking to her sometime.
we basically just exchanged blank looks today.
Ahhhhhhhhhh damn! Oneitis feels so good after you ditch that b!tch haha.
One thing that still pisses me off though is, she sounds exactly like I used to sound when I was younger. How can I ignore this feeling and get the past out of my head for good?
I walked into class as she was about to leave the room and she was like "woah.." probably cause I'm giant tank-sized compaired to her. What a weirdo haha.
duffman360
Don Juan
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dededee ur confusin love with lust dude
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
haha I don't see either, she's cute but has a flat chest and a flat ass. nothing special there. rofl.
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
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